Sayyiduna Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Mention the good deeds of your deceased, and refrain from their faults."
Hadith Referenceمعجم صغير للطبراني / كتاب الجنائز و ذكر الموت / 346
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:إسناده ضعيف
Hadith Takhrij«إسناده ضعيف ، وأخرجه ابن حبان فى «صحيحه» برقم: 3020، والحاكم فى «مستدركه» برقم: 1425، وأبو داود فى «سننه» برقم: 4900، والترمذي فى «جامعه» برقم: 1019، والبيهقي فى«سننه الكبير» برقم: 7288، والطبراني فى«الكبير» برقم: 13599، والطبراني فى «الأوسط» برقم: 3601، والطبراني فى «الصغير» برقم: 461 قال الشيخ الألباني: ضعيف»
Narrated Abdullah ibn Umar: The Prophet ﷺ said: Make a mention of the virtues of your dead, and refrain from (mentioning) their evils.
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues: The deceased has already departed to the next world to receive the reward or punishment for his deeds; now, mentioning his faults will only cause distress to his heirs and become a cause of mutual enmity among you. However, if there is a Shari‘ah-based necessity to clarify someone’s disbelief, polytheism, or innovation, then it should be stated so that people remain cautious—for example, if certain individuals have been the cause of spreading corrupt beliefs or have been weak in the narration of hadith, then mentioning them is a part of the religion, not due to any personal motive.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 4900