مشكوة المصابيح
Mishkat al-Masabih
كتاب الآدابThe Book of Manners
(مَعُونَةُ اللهِ تَعَالَى مَعَ مَنْ يَتَجَاوَزُ)
(Allah’s Help Is with the One Who Forgives)
Hadith 4924
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ رَجُلًا قَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ لي قَرَابةَ أصلهم ويقطعوني وَأحسن إِلَيْهِم ويسيؤون إِلَيّ وأحلم عَلَيْهِم وَيَجْهَلُونَ عَلَيَّ. فَقَالَ: «لَئِنْ كُنْتَ كَمَا قُلْتَ فَكَأَنَّمَا تُسِفُّهُمُ الْمَلَّ وَلَا يَزَالُ مَعَكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ ظَهِيرٌ عَلَيْهِمْ مَا دُمْتَ عَلَى ذَلِكَ» . رَوَاهُ مُسلم
It is narrated from Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, that a man said: O Messenger of Allah! I have some relatives with whom I maintain ties of kinship, but they sever relations with me; I treat them well, but they treat me badly; I am patient with them, but they wrong me. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: "If what you say is true, then it is as if you are putting hot ashes in their mouths. As long as you continue in this way, you will have Allah’s support against them." Narrated by Muslim.
