وَعَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ خَرَجَ يَوْمًا وَنَحْنُ مَعَهُ فَرَأَى قُبَّةً مُشْرِفَةً فَقَالَ: «مَا هَذِهِ؟» قَالَ أَصْحَابُهُ: هَذِهِ لِفُلَانٍ رَجُلٍ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَسَكَتَ وَحَمَلَهَا فِي نَفْسِهِ حَتَّى إِذَا جَاءَ صَاحِبُهَا فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فِي النَّاسُ فَأَعْرَضَ عَنْهُ صَنَعَ ذَلِكَ مِرَارًا حَتَّى عرفَ الرجلُ الغضبَ فِيهِ والإِعراضَ فَشَكَا ذَلِكَ إِلَى أَصْحَابِهِ وَقَالَ: وَاللَّهِ إِنِّي لَأُنْكِرُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ. قَالُوا: خَرَجَ فَرَأَى قُبَّتَكَ. فَرَجَعَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى قُبَّتِهِ فَهَدَمَهَا حَتَّى سَوَّاهَا بِالْأَرْضِ. فَخَرَجَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ فَلَمْ يَرَهَا قَالَ: «مَا فَعَلَتِ الْقُبَّةُ؟» قَالُوا: شَكَا إِلَيْنَا صَاحِبُهَا إِعْرَاضَكَ فَأَخْبَرْنَاهُ فَهَدَمَهَا. فَقَالَ: «أَمَا إِنَّ كَلَّ بِنَاءٍ وَبَالٌ عَلَى صَاحِبِهِ إِلَّا مَا لَا إِلَّا مَا لَا» يَعْنِي مَا لَا بُدَّ مِنْهُ. رَوَاهُ أَبُو دَاوُدَ
It is narrated from Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came out one day and we were with him. He saw a tall dome and said: "What is this?" His companions replied, "It belongs to an Ansari man." The Prophet remained silent and kept it in his heart until its owner came and greeted the Prophet in the presence of the people, but the Prophet turned away from him. He did this several times until the man recognized the Prophet’s displeasure and estrangement towards him. He asked his companions about the reason and said, "By Allah! I feel that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is angry with me, but I do not know the reason." They told him, "You came out and saw your dome." The man went to his dome, demolished it, and leveled it with the ground. Then one day the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) came out and did not see the dome. He asked, "What happened to the dome?" The companions replied, "Its owner asked us the reason for your estrangement, so we told him, and he demolished it." The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Listen! Every building which is not essential is a burden for its owner." Its chain is authentic. Narrated by Abu Dawood.