Hadith 4186
حَدَّثَنَا حَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى , حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ , حَدَّثَنِي سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ , عَنْ أَبِي مَرْحُومٍ , عَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ مُعَاذِ بْنِ أَنَسٍ , عَنْ أَبِيهِ , أَنّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَ : " مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظًا وَهُوَ قَادِرٌ عَلَى أَنْ يُنْفِذَهُ , دَعَاهُ اللَّهُ عَلَى رُءُوسِ الْخَلَائِقِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ , حَتَّى يُخَيِّرَهُ فِي أَيِّ الْحُورِ شَاءَ " .
´It was narrated from Sahl bin Mu’adh bin Anas, from his father, that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:` “Whoever restrains his anger when he is able to implement it, Allah will call him before all of creation on the Day of Resurrection, and will give him his choice of any houri that he wants.”
Hadith 4187
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلَاءِ الْهَمْدَانِيُّ , حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ , حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ دِينَارٍ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ , عَنْ عُمَارَةَ الْعَبْدِيِّ , حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيُّ , قَالَ : كُنَّا جُلُوسًا عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , فَقَالَ : " أَتَتْكُمْ وُفُودُ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ " , وَمَا يَرَى أَحَدٌ فِينَا نَحْنُ كَذَلِكَ إِذْ جَاءُوا فَنَزَلُوا , فَأَتَوْا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَبَقِيَ الْأَشَجُّ الْعَصَرِيُّ , فَجَاءَ بَعْدُ فَنَزَلَ مَنْزِلًا , فَأَنَاخَ رَاحِلَتَهُ وَوَضَعَ ثِيَابَهُ جَانِبًا , ثُمَّ جَاءَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ, فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " يَا أَشَجُّ , إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ : الْحِلْمَ وَالتُّؤَدَةَ " , قَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ , أَشَيْءٌ جُبِلْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَمْ شَيْءٌ حَدَثَ لِي , قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " بَلْ شَيْءٌ جُبِلْتَ عَلَيْهِ " .
´Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri said:` “We were sitting with the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and he said: ‘The delegations of ‘Abdul-Qais have come to you,’ and no one had seen anyone. While we were like that, they came and alighted. They came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and Ashajj ‘Ansari was left behind. He came afterwards, and halted at the halting-place, made his she-camel kneel down, and changed of his traveling clothes, then he came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ). The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to him: ‘O Ashajj, you have two characteristics that Allah likes: Forbearance and deliberation.’ He said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, was I born with them or are they acquired?’ He said: ‘No, rather it is something that you were born with.’”
Hadith 4188
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاق الْهَرَوِيُّ , حَدَّثَنَا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ , حَدَّثَنَا قُرَّةُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ , حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو جَمْرَةَ , عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ , أَنّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , قَالَ لِلْأَشَجِّ الْعَصَرِيِّ : " إِنَّ فِيكَ خَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ : الْحِلْمَ وَالْحَيَاءَ " .
´It was narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet (ﷺ) said to Ashajj ‘Ansari:` “You have two characteristics that Allah likes: Forbearance and modesty.”
Hadith 4189
حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ أَخْزَمَ , حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ عُمَرَ , حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ , عَنْ يُونُسَ بْنِ عُبَيْدٍ , عَنْ الْحَسَنِ , عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ , قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " مَا مِنْ جُرْعَةٍ أَعْظَمُ أَجْرًا عِنْدَ اللَّهِ , مِنْ جُرْعَةِ غَيْظٍ كَظَمَهَا عَبْدٌ ابْتِغَاءَ وَجْهِ اللَّهِ " .
´It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:` “There is no gulp that brings greater reward with Allah than a gulp of anger that a man swallows (suppresses), seeking thereby the Face of Allah.”
