سنن ابن ماجه
Sunan Ibn Majah
كتاب الطلاق
The Chapters on Divorce
بَابُ : الرَّجُلِ يَأْمُرُهُ أَبُوهُ بِطَلاَقِ امْرَأَتِهِ
Chapter: A man whose father orders him to divorce his wife
Hadith 2088
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ الْقَطَّانُ ، وَعُثْمَانُ بْنُ عُمَرَ ، قَالَا : حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ ، عَنْ خَالِهِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، عَنْ حَمْزَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ ، قَالَ : " كَانَتْ تَحْتِي امْرَأَةٌ وَكُنْتُ أُحِبُّهَا ، وَكَانَ أَبِي يُبْغِضُهَا ، فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ عُمَرُ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَأَمَرَنِي أَنْ أُطَلِّقَهَا فَطَلَّقْتُهَا " .
´It was narrated that 'Abdullah bin 'Umar said:` "I had a wife whom I loved, but my father hated her. 'Umar mentioned that to the Prophet (ﷺ) and he ordered me to divorce her, so I divorced her."
Hadith 2089
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ ، عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ ، عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ ، أَنَّ رَجُلًا أَمَرَهُ أَبُوهُ أَوْ أُمُّهُ شَكَّ شُعْبَةُ ، أَنْ يُطَلِّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ ، فَجَعَلَ عَلَيْهِ مِائَةَ مُحَرَّرٍ ، فَأَتَى أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ ، فَإِذَا هُوَ يُصَلِّي الضُّحَى وَيُطِيلُهَا وَصَلَّى مَا بَيْنَ الظُّهْرِ وَالْعَصْرِ ، فَسَأَلَهُ ، فَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ : أَوْفِ بِنَذْرِكَ وَبِرَّ وَالِدَيْكَ ، وَقَالَ أَبُو الدَّرْدَاءِ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : " الْوَالِدُ أَوْسَطُ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ فَحَافِظْ عَلَى وَالِدَيْكَ أَوِ اتْرُكْ " .
´It was narrated from 'Abdur-Rahman that:` a man's father or mother - Shu'bah (one of the namators) was not sure - ordered him to divorce his wife, and he made a vow that he would free one hundred slaves if he did that. He came to Abu Darda' while he was praying the Duha, and he was making his prayer lengthy, and he prayed between Zuhr and 'Asr. Then he asked him and Abu Darda' said: "Fulfill your vow and honor your parents." Abu Ad-Darda' said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) say: '(Honoring) one's father may lead one to enter through the best of the gates of Paradise; so take care of your parents, (it is so, whether you take care of them) or not. "
