´It was narrated that Jarir bin ‘Abdullah Al-Bajali said:` “We used to think that gathering with the family of the deceased and preparing food was a form of wailing.”
Hadith Referenceسنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الجنائز / 1612
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:صحيح | زبیر علی زئی:ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, إسماعيل بن أبي خالد مدلس و عنعن, انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 437