´It was narrated that `Abdullah bin Sarjis said:` "The Messenger of Allah forbade men to perform ablution with the water left over by a woman, and women to perform ablution with water left over by a man, however both (spouses) may start to perform their ablutions at the same time." Abu `Abdullah Ibn Majah said: "The first (narration) is correct, and the second (narration) is Wahm (an error)." Another chain with similar wording.
Hadith Referenceسنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الطهارة وسننها / 374
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:صحيح | زبیر علی زئی:إسناده صحيح
´It was narrated that 'Ali said:` "The Prophet and his wife would take a bath from one vessel, but neither of them would have a bath with the leftover water of the other." (Daif)
Hadith Referenceسنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الطهارة وسننها / 375
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:ضعيف | زبیر علی زئی:ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, الحارث الأعور: ضعيف, انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 391
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