Hadith 565

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ رُمْحٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدٍ ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ ، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ يَاسِرٍ ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ : " سَقَطَ عِقْدُ عَائِشَةَ فَتَخَلَّفَتْ لِالْتِمَاسِهِ ، فَانْطَلَقَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ ، فَتَغَيَّظَ عَلَيْهَا فِي حَبْسِهَا النَّاسَ ، فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ الرُّخْصَةَ فِي التَّيَمُّمِ ، قَالَ : " فَمَسَحْنَا يَوْمَئِذٍ إِلَى الْمَنَاكِبِ " ، قَالَ : فَانْطَلَقَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ إِلَى عَائِشَةَ ، فَقَالَ : مَا عَلِمْتُ إِنَّكِ لَمُبَارَكَةٌ .
´It was narrated that 'Ammar bin Yasir said:` "Aishah dropped a necklace and stayed behind to look for it. Abu Bakr went to 'Aishah and got angry with her for keeping the people waiting. Then Allah revealed the concession allowing dry ablution, so we wiped our arms up to the shoulders. Abu Bakr went to 'Aishah and said: 'I did not know that you are blessed.'"
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / أبواب التيمم / 565
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Commentary:
(1)
The husband should comfort his wife to a reasonable extent, even if it involves some hardship.

(2)
Parents may use verbal admonition and physical discipline in response to their children's mistakes.

(3)
This demonstrates the honor of Umm al-Mu’minin, Aisha radi Allahu anha, that due to her momentary difficulty, all Muslims received the blessing of the concession of tayammum (dry ablution).
On this occasion, Usayd ibn Hudayr radi Allahu anhu expressed this very virtue of Aisha. See: (Hadith: 568)

(5)
The ruling of wiping the hands up to the shoulders in tayammum has been abrogated.
Wiping only the face and palms is sufficient, as is explicitly stated in other narrations.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 565