Hadith 3716

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ , حَدَّثَنَا وَكِيعٌ , عَنْ أَبِي يَحْيَى الطَّوِيلِ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَهْلُ الْكُوفَةِ , عَنْ زَيْدٍ الْعَمِّيِّ , عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ , قَالَ : كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ , " إِذَا لَقِيَ الرَّجُلَ فَكَلَّمَهُ , لَمْ يَصْرِفْ وَجْهَهُ عَنْهُ حَتَّى يَكُونَ هُوَ الَّذِي يَنْصَرِفُ , وَإِذَا صَافَحَهُ لَمْ يَنْزِعْ يَدَهُ مِنْ يَدِهِ حَتَّى يَكُونَ هُوَ الَّذِي يَنْزِعُهَا , وَلَمْ يُرَ مُتَقَدِّمًا بِرُكْبَتَيْهِ جَلِيسًا لَهُ قَطُّ " .
´It was narrated that Anas bin Malik said:` "Whenever the Prophet(ﷺ) met a man, he would speak to him, and would not tun away until he (the other man) was the one who turned away. And if he shook hands with him, he would not withdraw his hand until he (the other man) withdrew his hand. And he was never seen sitting with his knees ahead of the knees of the one who was sitting next to him."
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الأدب / 3716
Hadith Grading الألبانی: ضعيف إلا جملة المصافحة فهي ثابتة  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, ترمذي (2490), انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 510
Hadith Takhrij «تفرد بہ ابن ماجہ ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 841 ، ومصباح الزجاجة : 1297 ) ، وقد أخرجہ : سنن الترمذی/صفة القیامة 46 ( 2490 ) ، بعضہ وقال : غریب ) ( ضعیف ) » ( زید العمی ضعیف راوی ہے ، لیکن مصافحہ کا جملہ صحیح اور ثابت ہے ، ملاحظہ ہو : سلسلة الاحادیث الصحیحة ، للالبانی : 4285 )
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
Our esteemed researcher has declared the mentioned narration weak in terms of its chain of transmission, whereas Shaykh al-Albani rahimahullah writes regarding it that the mentioned narration, except for this sentence:
Whenever anyone would shake hands with the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam), the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) would not withdraw his hand from the other person's hand until that person himself withdrew his hand.
— is weak. Furthermore, regarding this sentence, he writes that this sentence is established (authentic).
For details, see: (al-Silsilah al-Sahihah by al-Albani: 5/635, 637, no. 2485)
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3716
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation:
Note:
(In the chain of narration, Zayd al-‘Ammi is a weak narrator,
but the portion regarding shaking hands is established from other ahadith.)
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 2490