سنن ابن ماجه
Ibn Majah
كتاب الأدبChapters on Etiquette
بَابُ : بِرِّ الْوَالِدَيْنِChapter: Honoring One's Parents
Hadith 3657
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ , حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ , عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ , عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ , عَنْ ابْنِ سَلَامَةَ السُّلَمِيِّ , قَالَ : قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " أُوصِي امْرءًا بِأُمِّهِ , أُوصِي امْرءًا بِأُمِّهِ , أُوصِي امْرءًا بِأُمِّهِ ثَلَاثًا , أُوصِي امْرءًا بِأَبِيهِ , أُوصِي امْرءًا بِمَوْلَاهُ الَّذِي يَلِيهِ , وَإِنْ كَانَ عَلَيْهِ مِنْهُ أَذًى يُؤْذِيهِ " .
´Ibn Salamah As-Sulami narrated that the Prophet (ﷺ) said:` "I enjoin each one to honor his mother,I enjoin each one to honor his mother,I enjoin each one to honor his mother(three times), I enjoin each one to honor his guardian who is taking care of him, even if he is causing him some annoyance."
Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
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There are many instructions in the Noble Qur’an and authentic hadiths regarding good conduct with parents, relatives, neighbors, and friends, as is also affirmed by the meaning of the next hadith.
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“Mawla” has multiple meanings, such as: master, freed slave, slave, friend, relative, paternal cousin, ally, helper, etc. Therefore, we have translated it as “one with whom there is a connection,” which encompasses all those who have such relationships.
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The meaning of “yalīhi” is to meet and to be near. The relationship between master and slave is also a deep connection, which, even after emancipation, continues in another form. A blood relationship is also an unbreakable bond. Neighbor, friend, classmate, colleague, salaried worker, employee, and his employer—all these are people with whom there is constant contact; therefore, they should help one another and avoid causing harm to each other.
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There are many instructions in the Noble Qur’an and authentic hadiths regarding good conduct with parents, relatives, neighbors, and friends, as is also affirmed by the meaning of the next hadith.
➋
“Mawla” has multiple meanings, such as: master, freed slave, slave, friend, relative, paternal cousin, ally, helper, etc. Therefore, we have translated it as “one with whom there is a connection,” which encompasses all those who have such relationships.
➌
The meaning of “yalīhi” is to meet and to be near. The relationship between master and slave is also a deep connection, which, even after emancipation, continues in another form. A blood relationship is also an unbreakable bond. Neighbor, friend, classmate, colleague, salaried worker, employee, and his employer—all these are people with whom there is constant contact; therefore, they should help one another and avoid causing harm to each other.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3657
