Hadith 3295

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ خَلَفٍ الْعَسْقَلَانِيُّ ، حَدَّثَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ ، أَنْبَأَنَا عَبْدُ الْأَعْلَى ، عَنْ يَحْيَى بْنِ أَبِي كَثِيرٍ ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ ، عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " إِذَا وُضِعَتِ الْمَائِدَةُ فَلَا يَقُومُ رَجُلٌ حَتَّى تُرْفَعَ الْمَائِدَةُ , وَلَا يَرْفَعُ يَدَهُ , وَإِنْ شَبِعَ حَتَّى يَفْرُغَ الْقَوْمُ , وَلْيُعْذِرْ ، فَإِنَّ الرَّجُلَ يُخْجِلُ جَلِيسَهُ فَيَقْبِضُ يَدَهُ ، وَعَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ لَهُ فِي الطَّعَامِ حَاجَةٌ " .
´It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:` “When a meal is served, a man should not stand up until it is removed, and he should not take his hand away, even if he is full, until the people have finished. And let him continue eating.* For a man may make his companion shy, causing him to withhold his hand, and perhaps he has a need for the food.”
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الأطعمة / 3295
Hadith Grading الألبانی: ضعيف جدا  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, انظر الحديث السابق (3273), انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 494
Hadith Takhrij «تفرد بہ ابن ماجہ ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 7327 ، ومصباح الزجاجة : 1130 ) ( ضعیف جدا ) » ( سند میں عبدالاعلی ہیں جنہوں نے ابن أبی کثیر سے منکر حدیثیں روایت کی ہیں ، نیز ملاحظہ ہو : سلسلة الاحادیث الضعیفة ، للالبانی : 238 )
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
"Maidah" refers to that dining spread upon which food has already been placed; therefore, the meaning of "wudi'at al-ma'idah" is not merely to lay out the dining cloth, but rather that food must be served upon it.
An empty dining spread is called "khawan" in Arabic.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 3273