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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ ، عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاق ، عَنْ أَبِي الْأَحْوَصِ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : " طَلَاقُ السُّنَّةِ أَنْ يُطَلِّقَهَا طَاهِرًا مِنْ غَيْرِ جِمَاعٍ " .
´It was narrated that Abdullah said:` "Divorce according to the Sunnah means divorcing her when she is pure, ( i.e., not menstruating) and without having had intercourse with her (during that cycle)."
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الطلاق / 2020
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, نسائي (3423۔3424), انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 451
Hadith Takhrij «سنن النسائی/الطلاق 2 ( 3423 ) ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 9511 ) ( صحیح ) »
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Brief Explanation
1؎: So that it becomes easy for the woman to calculate her waiting period (‘iddah), and the ‘iddah begins from that very purity (tuhr); after three purities, she will become an irrevocably divorced woman (mubtalqah bainah). After the completion of the ‘iddah, she can marry another man. The Sunnah method of divorce (talaq al-sunnah) is that a woman should be divorced in a state of purity (tuhr) in which no intercourse (jima‘) has taken place, and the condition is that she was not divorced during the previous menstruation (hayd) before this purity, or in a state of pregnancy when the pregnancy has become apparent. Any other way of giving divorce (for example, during menstruation, or during a purity in which intercourse has taken place, or in a state of pregnancy when it is not yet apparent but there is doubt), as well as giving three divorces at once, is forbidden (haram), and this will be mentioned ahead. And in the hadith, when Ibn ‘Umar radi Allahu anhu was commanded to give divorce in the next purity after this one, the wisdom in this was that if the knowledge of the possibility of return (ruju‘) after divorce was not known, then the woman should remain for one purity. Some have said that this was a punishment for his unlawful act, and some have said that this purity was related to the same menstruation in which the divorce was given, therefore he should wait for the next purity.
Explanation & Benefits
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
894. Commentary:

➊ Both of the aforementioned narrations are weak in chain (isnad) due to discontinuity, as the researcher of the book has also explicitly stated. Therefore, it is questionable that Imam an-Nasa’i rahimahullah considered it “sound” (jayyid) in “as-Sunan al-Kubra, Hadith: 969.”

➋ Placing both feet together not only causes discomfort, making it difficult for a person to stand for long, but it is also contrary to the authentic Sunnah, because the blessed Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was that he would keep an appropriate distance between his two feet. In forming rows (saff), in order to align, it is necessary to open the feet somewhat; however, one should not open them more than one’s own body size.

➌ In the narration of Sunan Abu Dawud in which «صف القدمین من السنة» “joining the feet is Sunnah” [سنن ابی داود ، الصلاة ، حدیث : 754] is mentioned, its meaning is to keep the feet parallel and not to place one in front of the other, as has been explicitly clarified in the takhrij (referencing).
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 894
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
➊ This applies in the case when he intends to completely separate from her; in this way, the third divorce (talaq) will be irrevocable (bain), after which reconciliation (ruju‘) is not possible. However, it is better that after pronouncing one divorce (talaq), he lets the waiting period (‘iddah) pass, so that if later there arises a desire for reconciliation, they can remarry (nikah) anew and live together.

➋ If after one divorce (talaq) he reconciles (ruju‘), and then at some later time gives a second divorce, then after this second divorce as well, the waiting period (‘iddah) is three menstrual cycles (hayd), during which reconciliation (ruju‘) is possible without a new marriage contract (nikah).
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2021
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
The Hanafis, due to the aforementioned statement of Abdullah ibn Mas'ud radi Allahu anhu, consider giving three divorces in the mentioned manner to be the Sunnah divorce. However, this is a strange Sunnah divorce, which at once renders a woman forbidden (haram) to her husband. Moreover, even a single divorce is not praiseworthy, let alone giving three divorces in succession without necessity. Furthermore, it is worth pondering: when a woman can be separated from her husband with a single divorce, what need is there not to suffice with one before proceeding to three? Therefore, this cannot be the Sunnah divorce.

The Sunnah divorce is that the wife should be given one divorce (talaq) in a state of purity (tuhr), without having had intercourse, and then the husband should wait for the completion of the waiting period (‘iddah). If possible, he may take her back (ruju‘) during the ‘iddah, otherwise, he may let her go, so that if later there is reconciliation, a new marriage (nikah) can take place. This statement is also transmitted from Abdullah ibn Mas'ud radi Allahu anhu. And Ali radi Allahu anhu has established this form of divorce as the Sunnah divorce (talaq al-sunnah) with evidences. Therefore, this is the opinion that should be adopted, so that the path of return (ruju‘) during the waiting period and a new marriage after the waiting period remains open. This is also the position of the majority (jumhur), and this is correct.

Yes, in the first statement of Ibn Mas'ud radi Allahu anhu, calling the mentioned form a Sunnah divorce could mean that this form is also permissible, even though it is not preferable. According to Shaykh al-Islam Imam Ibn Taymiyyah rahimahullah, a divorce upon a divorce does not even take effect, because it is pointless, but the majority of the scholars (jumhur ahl al-‘ilm) hold that it does take effect. And this is the correct view. And Allah knows best.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3423