Hadith 2014

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ بْنُ الضَّحَّاكِ ، حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيل بْنُ عَيَّاشٍ ، عَنْ بَحِيرِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ ، عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ مَعْدَانَ ، عَنْ كَثِيرِ بْنِ مُرَّةَ ، عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " لَا تُؤْذِي امْرَأَةٌ زَوْجَهَا ، إِلَّا قَالَتْ زَوْجَتُهُ : مِنَ الْحُورِ الْعِينِ لَا تُؤْذِيهِ قَاتَلَكِ اللَّهُ ، فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ عِنْدَكِ دَخِيلٌ أَوْشَكَ أَنْ يُفَارِقَكِ إِلَيْنَا " .
´It was narrated from Mu'adh bin Jabal that:` the Messenger of Allah said: "No woman annoys her husband but his wife among houris (of Paradise) safs: 'Do not annoy him, may Allah destroy you, for he is just a temporary guest with you and soon he will leave you and join us."'
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب النكاح / 2014
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:


Not obeying the lawful commands of the husband is a major sin.


If a woman unjustly troubles her husband, it causes distress to the houris of Paradise.


The literal meaning of "al-hur al-‘ayn" is women of fair complexion and beautiful eyes.
By this is meant those women whom Allah Ta‘ala has created in Paradise by His special power for the men of Paradise.
Righteous Muslim women, who live their lives in accordance with Allah’s commands in this world, will have a status in Paradise greater than that of these houris.


A woman and a man should spend the time of worldly life together in a good manner, taking care of each other’s emotions and needs.
One never knows when separation may occur.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2014