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Hadith 2011

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ إِسْحَاق ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ أَيُّوبَ ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ نَوْفَلٍ الْقُرَشِيِّ ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، عَنْ جُدَامَةَ بِنْتِ وَهْبٍ الْأَسَدِيَّةِ ، أَنَّهَا قَالَتْ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : " قَدْ أَرَدْتُ أَنْ أَنْهَى عَنِ الْغِيَالِ فَإِذَا فَارِسُ وَالرُّومُ يُغِيلُونَ فَلَا يَقْتُلُونَ أَوْلَادَهُمْ وَسَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ : وَسُئِلَ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ ، فَقَالَ : هُوَ الْوَأْدُ الْخَفِيُّ " .
´It was narrated that Judamah bint Wahb Al-Asadiyyah said:` "I heard the Messenger of Allah say: 'I wanted to forbid intercourse with a nursing mother, but then (I saw that) the Persians and the Romans do this, and it does not kill their children.' And I heard him say/when he was asked about coitus interruptus: 'It is the disguised form of b.rryirg children alive."
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب النكاح / 2011
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Brief Explanation
1؎: Having intercourse with one's wife during the period of breastfeeding is called «غیل». The Arabs believed that this was harmful to the child, that it damaged his nerves, and that this defect would remain with him for his entire life. As a result, sometimes a person would fall from a horse and would not be able to remain steady on the horse's back. This hadith refutes this belief of the Arabs. «عزل» is when a man has intercourse with a woman and, upon nearing ejaculation, withdraws his sexual organ from the woman's private part and ejaculates outside. The meaning of «وأدخفی» is that, in reality, he is not burying in the grave, but it is similar to it because in this too there is an attempt to prevent and waste the pregnancy. However, since this does not actually kill a living child, it is not, in reality, burying a living child.
Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
➊ During the period of breastfeeding, engaging in sexual intercourse carries the risk of pregnancy, which can result in the mother’s milk decreasing, and the breastfeeding child may become weak due to not receiving sufficient milk. In the case of ghīlah (sexual relations during breastfeeding), this risk does exist, however, it is not certain. The deficiency of milk can be compensated with the milk of buffalo, cow, goat, etc. In such circumstances, weaning the child before the due time will not be harmful; therefore, avoiding it is permissible but not obligatory.

➋ Regarding coitus interruptus (‘azl), see the benefits of Hadith: 1926.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 2011
Hafiz Muhammad Ameen
If a child is still breastfeeding and conception occurs, sometimes the milk becomes harmful for the child. It becomes necessary to wean the child; otherwise, the child may develop diarrhea. If conception does not occur, then intercourse alone does not harm the milk. Since in such a situation intercourse can become a cause for conception, which would result in harm, therefore this act (ghilah) can also be prohibited, as was the opinion of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam). However, since it is almost impossible for the husband to adhere to this restriction—that he should not have intercourse with his wife for nearly two years, especially when he has only one wife—this restriction is contrary to benefit and would unnecessarily put people into hardship and trial. Therefore, the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) abandoned this opinion. Thus, now it is permissible to have intercourse during the period of breastfeeding.
Source: Sunan Nasa'i: Translation and Benefits by Shaykh Hafiz Muhammad Amin Hafizullah, Page: 3328
Shaykh Maulana Abdul Aziz Alvi
Hadith Commentary: Benefits and Issues: From these ahadith, it is understood that the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) would generally perform the Maghrib prayer at its earliest time, and without any excuse or necessity, he would not delay it excessively.
Source: Tuhfat al-Muslim: Commentary on Sahih Muslim, Page: 1442
Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi
Benefits and Issues:
From this hadith, it is understood that having intercourse with one's wife during the days of breastfeeding is permissible.
Source: Sunan Abu Dawood – Commentary by Shaykh Umar Farooq Saeedi, Page: 3882
Hafiz Zubair Ali Zai
Hadith Authentication:
[وأخرجه مسلم 1442، من حديث ما لك به .]

Jurisprudential Points:
➊ If a woman is breastfeeding her child, then after the days of postnatal bleeding (nifas), the husband may have intercourse with his wife during the period of breastfeeding (ridā‘ah).
➋ It is permissible to narrate the incidents of previous nations, provided that the chain of transmission for those incidents is authentic.
➌ A person with greater knowledge and superiority may narrate from someone with lesser knowledge and virtue, because Lady Aisha (radi Allahu anha) narrated this hadith from Lady Judama (radi Allahu anha), and by consensus of Ahl al-Sunnah, Lady Aisha is superior to her. May Allah be pleased with them both.
➍ It is permissible for a husband to have intercourse with his pregnant wife, provided there is no fear of harm to the child in the womb.
➎ Every statement and action of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) is a favor, goodness, and pure mercy for the Muslim Ummah.
➏ Beneficial and reasonable things may be adopted from non-Muslim nations.
➐ Ijtihad (independent juristic reasoning) is permissible, provided it is not in opposition to clear evidence.
Source: Muwatta Imam Malik (Narration of Ibn al-Qasim): Commentary by Zubair Ali Zai, Page: 90