Hadith 1978

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَالِدٍ ، عَنْ الْأَعْمَشِ ، عَنْ شَقِيقٍ ، عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو ، قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " خِيَارُكُمْ خِيَارُكُمْ لِنِسَائِهِمْ " .
´It was narrated from 'Abdullah bin 'Amr that:` the Messenger of Allah said: "The best of you are those who are best to their womenfolk."
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب النكاح / 1978
Hadith Grading الألبانی: صحيح  |  زبیر علی زئی: صحيح
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Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:

The husband, wife, and children together form the basic unit of society.
For living life, these members of the household need mutual cooperation more than others; therefore, the reformation of their relationships is the foundation of the reformation of society.


The mutual relationship between husband and wife should be based on love, compassion, selflessness, and sincerity.
The benefit of good conduct towards the wife is first and foremost gained by the husband himself; similarly, the attitude of love and respect towards the husband proves to be most beneficial for the woman herself.


As a result of good relations between husband and wife, children also become a mercy, but if the relationship between husband and wife is not pleasant, it has a negative effect on the children, and they learn bad habits, becoming a source of trouble for the parents and a cause of mischief and disorder in society.


To prevent a wrong action, applying appropriate strictness is not contrary to good conduct.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 1978