سنن ابن ماجه
Sunan Ibn Majah
كتاب النكاح
The Chapters on Marriage
بَابُ : تَزْوِيجِ الأَبْكَارِ
Chapter: Marrying virgins
Hadith 1860
حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدَةُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ ، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَلَقِيتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : " أَتَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ؟ ، قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : " أَبِكْرًا ، أَوْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ " ، قُلْتُ : ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : " فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا " ، قُلْتُ : كُنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ ، فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ ، قَالَ : " فَذَاكَ إِذًا " .
´It was narrated that:` Jabir bin Abdullah said: “I married a woman during the time of the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes'. He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously-married woman?' I said: 'A previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin so you could play with her?' I said: 'I have sisters and did not want her to create trouble between them and me.' He said: 'That is better then.' ”
