Hadith 1611

حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ خَلَفٍ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ ، قَالَ : حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْأَعْلَى ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ إِسْحَاق ، حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ، عَنْ أُمِّ عِيسَى الْجَزَّارِ ، قَالَتْ : حَدَّثَتْنِي أُمُّ عَوْنٍ ابْنَةُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ جَعْفَرٍ ، عَنْ جَدَّتِهَا أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ ، قَالَتْ : لَمَّا أُصِيبَ جَعْفَرٌ رَجَعَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى أَهْلِهِ ، فَقَالَ : " إِنَّ آلَ جَعْفَرٍ قَدْ شُغِلُوا بِشَأْنِ مَيِّتِهِمْ ، فَاصْنَعُوا لَهُمْ طَعَامًا " ، قَالَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ : فَمَا زَالَتْ سُنَّةً حَتَّى كَانَ حَدِيثًا فَتُرِكَ .
´Asma’ bint ‘Umais said:` “When Ja’far was killed, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) went to his family and said: ‘The family of Ja’far are busy with the matter of their deceased, so prepare food for them.’” (One of the narrators) Abdullah said: "That continued to be the Sunnah, until innovations were introduced, then it was abandoned."
Hadith Reference سنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الجنائز / 1611
Hadith Grading الألبانی: حسن  |  زبیر علی زئی: ضعيف, إسناده ضعيف, أم عون: مقبولة (مستورة الحال) وأم عيسي (الخزاعية) الجزار: لا يعرف حالھا (تقريب:8750،8754), والحديث السابق (الأصل: 1610) يغني عنه, انوار الصحيفه، صفحه نمبر 437
Hadith Takhrij « تفرد بہ ابن ماجہ ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 1576 ، ومصباح الزجاجة : 585 ) ، وقد أخرجہ : مسند احمد ( 6/370 ) ( حسن ) » ( سند میں ام عیسیٰ اور ام عون مجہول ہیں ، لیکن شاہد کی بناء پر یہ حدیث حسن ہے )
Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefits and Issues:
(1)
Our esteemed researcher has declared the mentioned narration to be weak in its chain of transmission. Furthermore, he has written that the previous narration suffices in this regard. Most likely for this reason, other researchers have considered it to be hasan.

(2)
Food should be prepared for the family of the deceased and they should be fed.

(3)
This food should be of a moderate level—just as a person normally prepares food in his routine. In the same way, food should be prepared and sent to the family of the deceased. If one engages in extravagance, rivalry, or develops a sense of pride in this matter, then the original purpose is lost.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 1611