´It was narrated that ‘Aishah said:` “If I had known then what I know now, no one would have washed the Prophet (ﷺ) but his wives.”
Hadith Referenceسنن ابن ماجه / كتاب الجنائز / 1464
Hadith Gradingالألبانی:صحيح | زبیر علی زئی:إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrij« تفرد بہ ابن ماجہ ، ( تحفة الأشراف : 16182 ، ومصباح الزجاجة : 519 ) ، وقد أخرجہ : سنن ابی داود/الجنائز 32 ( 3141 ) ، مسند احمد ( 6/267 ) ( صحیح ) » ( سند میں ابن اسحاق مدلس ہیں ، اور روایت عنعنہ سے ہے ، لیکن منتقی ابن الجارو د ، صحیح ابن حبان اور مستدرک الحاکم میں تحدیث کی صراحت ہے ، دفاع عن الحدیث النبوی 53-54 ، والإرواء : 700 )
Brief Explanation
1؎ : From this hadith it is established that a woman can give her husband a ritual bath (ghusl), because the wife is a confidante (mahrem-e-raaz), and there is no concealment of the private parts (satr) from her. Therefore, her giving the ritual bath to her husband is more appropriate and better than others doing so. Furthermore, Abu Bakr as-Siddiq radi Allahu anhu was given the ritual bath by his wife Asma bint Umays radi Allahu anha, and none of the Companions objected to this. This ruling is also agreed upon (ittifaqi). Moreover, Umm al-Mu’minin Aisha radi Allahu anha expressed regret at not being able to give the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam the ritual bath; if this were not permissible, she would not have expressed such regret, as Imam Bayhaqi states: «فتلهفت على ذلك ولا يتلهف إلا على ما يجوز».
Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Ataullah Sajid
Benefit: The relationship between husband and wife is such that no other relationship is like it. And there is no veil (barrier) between them regarding any part of the body. Therefore, they have the greatest right over each other to give one another the ritual bath (ghusl). This also refutes those people who say that after death, a husband and wife can neither look at each other's face nor give each other the ritual bath.
Source: Commentary on Sunan Ibn Mājah by Mawlānā ‘Atā’ullāh Sājid, Page: 1464