وعن أبي بردة بن أبي موسى عن أبيه رضي الله تعالى عنهما قال : قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وآله وسلم : « لا نكاح إلا بولي » رواه أحمد والأربعة وصححه ابن المديني والترمذي وابن حبان وأعله بالإرسال. وروى الإمام أحمد عن الحسن عن عمران بن الحصين مرفوعا : « لا نكاح إلا بولي وشاهدين».
Narrated Abu Burda bin Abu Musa on the authority of his father; Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: "There is no marriage without a guardian." [Ahmad and al-Arba'a reported it. Ibn al-Madini, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban graded it Sahih (authentic), but it was regarded defective for being Mursal (missing link after the Tabi'i)].
Hadith Referenceبلوغ المرام / 835
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحيح
Hadith Takhrij«أخرجه أبوداود، النكاح، باب في الولي، حديث:2085، والترمذي، النكاح، حديث:1101، وابن ماجه، النكاح، حديث:1881، والنسائي: لم أجده، وأحمد:4 /394، وانظر لا بطال التعليل نيل المقصود لراقم الحروف،والحمد لِلهِ، وحديث عمران بن حصين أخرجه أحمد: لم أجده، ومتن الحديث صحيح بالشواهد.»
´Abu Musa narrated that :` the Messenger of Allah said: "There is no marriage except with a Wali."
Shaykh Dr. Abdur Rahman Freywai
Explanation: 1:
From this hadith, it is understood that a marriage (nikah) does not take place without the permission of a guardian (wali).
According to the majority of scholars, for a marriage to be valid, the presence of a guardian (wali) and two witnesses is necessary.
By "wali" is meant the father.
In the absence of the father, then the grandfather, then the brother, then the paternal uncle is the wali.
If someone has two guardians (awliya) and there is a disagreement at the time of marriage, then preference will be given to the closer guardian, and if someone has no guardian, then the (Muslim) ruler will be his/her guardian.
And where there is no Muslim ruler, then the respected Muslims of the village will act as guardians.
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhi – Majlis ‘Ilmi Dar al-Da‘wah, New Delhi Edition, Page: 1101