صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كتاب الأدب
The Book of Al-Adab (Good Manners)
بَابُ مَا يَجُوزُ مِنِ اغْتِيَابِ أَهْلِ الْفَسَادِ وَالرِّيَبِ:
(48) Chapter. What is allowed as regards backbitings wicked and suspicious people.
Hadith 6054
حَدَّثَنَا صَدَقَةُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ ، أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ ، سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ الْمُنْكَدِرِ ، سَمِعَ عُرْوَةَ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ ، قَالَتْ : اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ : " ائْذَنُوا لَهُ بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ أَوِ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ " ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلَانَ لَهُ الْكَلَامَ ، قُلْتُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، قُلْتَ الَّذِي قُلْتَ ، ثُمَّ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ الْكَلَامَ ، قَالَ : " أَيْ عَائِشَةُ ، إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ النَّاسُ أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ فُحْشِهِ " .
Narrated `Aisha: A man asked permission to enter upon Allah's Apostle. The Prophet said, "Admit him. What an evil brother of his people or a son of his people." But when the man entered, the Prophet spoke to him in a very polite manner. (And when that person left) I said, "O Allah's Apostle! You had said what you had said, yet you spoke to him in a very polite manner?" The Prophet said, "O `Aisha! The worst people are those whom the people desert or leave in order to save themselves from their dirty language or from their transgression."
