Hadith 5088
حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو الْيَمَانِ ، أَخْبَرَنَا
شُعَيْبٌ ، عَنْ
الزُّهْرِيِّ ، قَالَ : أَخْبَرَنِي
عُرْوَةُ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، " أَنَّ أَبَا حُذَيْفَةَ بْنَ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ شَمْسٍ وَكَانَ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ تَبَنَّى سَالِمًا وَأَنْكَحَهُ بِنْتَ أَخِيهِ هِنْدَ بِنْتَ الْوَلِيدِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ ، وَهُوَ مَوْلًى لِامْرَأَةٍ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ ، كَمَا تَبَنَّى النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ زَيْدًا " ، وَكَانَ مَنْ تَبَنَّى رَجُلًا فِي الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ دَعَاهُ النَّاسُ إِلَيْهِ وَوَرِثَ مِنْ مِيرَاثِهِ حَتَّى أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ : ادْعُوهُمْ لآبَائِهِمْ إِلَى قَوْلِهِ : وَمَوَالِيكُمْ سورة الأحزاب آية 5 ، فَرُدُّوا إِلَى آبَائِهِمْ ، فَمَنْ لَمْ يُعْلَمْ لَهُ أَبٌ كَانَ مَوْلًى وَأَخًا فِي الدِّينِ ، فَجَاءَتْ سَهْلَةُ بِنْتُ سُهَيْلِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو الْقُرَشِيِّ ، ثُمَّ العَامِرِيِّ وَهِيَ امْرَأَةُ أَبِي حُذَيْفَةَ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَتْ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ، إِنَّا كُنَّا نَرَى سَالِمًا وَلَدًا ، وَقَدْ أَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ مَا قَدْ عَلِمْتَ ، فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ .
Narrated `Aisha: Abu Hudhaifa bin `Utba bin Rabi`a bin `Abdi Shams who had witnessed the battle of Badr along with the Prophet adopted Salim as his son, to whom he married his niece, Hind bint Al-Walid bin `Utba bin Rabi`a; and Salim was the freed slave of an Ansar woman, just as the Prophet had adopted Zaid as his son. It was the custom in the Pre-lslamic Period that if somebody adopted a boy, the people would call him the son of the adoptive father and he would be the latter's heir. But when Allah revealed the Divine Verses: 'Call them by (the names of) their fathers . . . your freed-slaves,' (33.5) the adopted persons were called by their fathers' names. The one whose father was not known, would be regarded as a Maula and your brother in religion. Later on Sahla bint Suhail bin `Amr Al-Quraishi Al-`Amiri-- and she was the wife of Abu- Hudhaifa bin `Utba--came to the Prophet and said, "O Allah's Apostle! We used to consider Salim as our (adopted) son, and now Allah has revealed what you know (regarding adopted sons)." The sub-narrator then mentioned the rest of the narration.
Hadith 5089
حَدَّثَنَا
عُبَيْدُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ ، حَدَّثَنَا
أَبُو أُسَامَةَ ، عَنْ
هِشَامٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
عَائِشَةَ ، قَالَتْ : " دَخَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى ضُبَاعَةَ بِنْتِ الزُّبَيْرِ ، فَقَالَ لَهَا : لَعَلَّكِ أَرَدْتِ الْحَجَّ ؟ قَالَتْ : وَاللَّهِ لَا أَجِدُنِي إِلَّا وَجِعَةً ، فَقَالَ لَهَا : حُجِّي وَاشْتَرِطِي ، وَقُولِي : اللَّهُمَّ مَحِلِّي حَيْثُ حَبَسْتَنِي "، وَكَانَتْ تَحْتَ الْمِقْدَادِ بْنِ الْأَسْوَدِ .
Narrated `Aisha: Allah's Apostle entered upon Dubaa bint Az-Zubair and said to her, "Do you have a desire to perform the Hajj?" She replied, "By Allah, I feel sick." He said to her, "Intend to perform Hajj and stipulate something by saying, 'O Allah, I will finish my Ihram at any place where You stop me (i.e. I am unable to go further)." She was the wife of Al-Miqdad bin Al-Aswad.
Hadith 5090
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
Hadith 5091
حَدَّثَنَا
إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ حَمْزَةَ ، حَدَّثَنَا
ابْنُ أَبِي حَازِمٍ ، عَنْ
أَبِيهِ ، عَنْ
سَهْلٍ ، قَالَ : مَرَّ رَجُلٌ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : مَا تَقُولُونَ فِي هَذَا ؟ قَالُوا : حَرِيٌّ إِنْ خَطَبَ أَنْ يُنْكَحَ ، وَإِنْ شَفَعَ أَنْ يُشَفَّعَ ، وَإِنْ قَالَ أَنْ يُسْتَمَعَ ، قَالَ : ثُمَّ سَكَتَ ، فَمَرَّ رَجُلٌ مِنْ فُقَرَاءِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ ، فَقَالَ : مَا تَقُولُونَ فِي هَذَا ؟ قَالُوا : حَرِيٌّ إِنْ خَطَبَ أَنْ لَا يُنْكَحَ ، وَإِنْ شَفَعَ أَنْ لَا يُشَفَّعَ ، وَإِنْ قَالَ أَنْ لَا يُسْتَمَعَ ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هَذَاخَيْرٌ مِنْ مِلْءِ الْأَرْضِ مِثْلَ هَذَا " .
Narrated Sahl: A man passed by Allah's Apostle and Allah s Apostle asked (his companions) "What do you say about this (man)?" They replied "If he asks for a lady's hand, he ought to be given her in marriage; and if he intercedes (for someone) his intercessor should be accepted; and if he speaks, he should be listened to." Allah's Apostle kept silent, and then a man from among the poor Muslims passed by, an Allah's Apostle asked (them) "What do you say about this man?" They replied, "If he asks for a lady's hand in marriage he does not deserve to be married, and he intercedes (for someone), his intercession should not be accepted; And if he speaks, he should not be listened to.' Allah's Apostle said, "This poor man is better than so many of the first as filling the earth.'