صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كتاب الأدب
The Book of Al-Adab (Good Manners)
بَابُ الْمُدَارَاةِ مَعَ النَّاسِ:
(82) Chapter. To be gentle and polite with the people.
Hadith 6131
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ ، عَنِ ابْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ ، حَدَّثَهُ عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ ، أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ ، أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهُ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلٌ ، فَقَالَ : " ائْذَنُوا لَهُ ، فَبِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ أَوْ بِئْسَ أَخُو الْعَشِيرَةِ " ، فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ أَلَانَ لَهُ الْكَلَامَ ، فَقُلْتُ لَهُ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قُلْتَ مَا قُلْتَ ثُمَّ أَلَنْتَ لَهُ فِي الْقَوْلِ ، فَقَالَ : " أَيْ عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ شَرَّ النَّاسِ مَنْزِلَةً عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مَنْ تَرَكَهُ أَوْ وَدَعَهُ النَّاسُ اتِّقَاءَ فُحْشِهِ " .
Narrated Aisha: A man asked permission to see the Prophet. He said, "Let Him come in; What an evil man of the tribe he is! (Or, What an evil brother of the tribe he is). But when he entered, the Prophet spoke to him gently in a polite manner. I said to him, "O Allah's Apostle! You have said what you have said, then you spoke to him in a very gentle and polite manner? The Prophet said, "The worse people, in the sight of Allah are those whom the people leave (undisturbed) to save themselves from their dirty language."
