صحيح البخاري
Bukhari
كتاب النكاحThe Book of (The Wedlock)
بَابُ لاَ تُطِيعُ الْمَرْأَةُ زَوْجَهَا فِي مَعْصِيَةٍ:Chapter. A woman should not obey her husband if he orders her to do something sinful.
Hadith 5205
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا خَلَّادُ بْنُ يَحْيَى ، حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ نَافِعٍ ، عَنْ الْحَسَنِ هُوَ ابْنُ مُسْلِمٍ ، عَنْ صَفِيَّةَ ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، " أَنَّ امْرَأَةً مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ زَوَّجَتِ ابْنَتَهَا ، فَتَمَعَّطَ شَعَرُ رَأْسِهَا ، فَجَاءَتْ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرَتْ ذَلِكَ لَهُ ، فَقَالَتْ : إِنَّ زَوْجَهَا أَمَرَنِي أَنْ أَصِلَ فِي شَعَرِهَا ، فَقَالَ : لَا ، إِنَّهُ قَدْلُعِنَ الْمُوصِلَاتُ " .
Narrated `Aisha: An Ansari woman gave her daughter in marriage and the hair of the latter started falling out. The Ansari women came to the Prophet and mentioned that to him and said, "Her (my daughter's) husband suggested that I should let her wear false hair." The Prophet said, "No, (don't do that) for Allah sends His curses upon such ladies who lengthen their hair artificially."
Related hadith on this topic
Explanation & Benefits
Maulana Dawood Raz
Hadith Commentary:
From this hadith, it is understood that if a husband commands something contrary to the ruling of the Shari‘ah, then if the wife does not comply with it, there will be no sin upon her.
From this hadith, it is understood that if a husband commands something contrary to the ruling of the Shari‘ah, then if the wife does not comply with it, there will be no sin upon her.
Source: Sahih Bukhari: Commentary by Maulana Dawood Raz, Page: 5205
Shaykh Abdul Sattar al-Hammad
Hadith Commentary:
(1)
It is understood from this hadith that it is not permissible to engage in non-shari‘ah-compliant beautification in order to please the husband. Nowadays, so-called enlightened women perform many non-shari‘ah acts for artificial beauty that are attractive to men. Among these is the use of artificial hair wigs. This is prohibited because such acts are done by immoral and shameless women, and it is also tantamount to altering the creation of Allah.
(2)
In any case, it is understood from this hadith that if the husband commands something contrary to the shari‘ah, the woman should not obey him. In such circumstances, she will not incur any sin, nor will this act be considered as disobedience to the husband.
Wallahu al-musta‘an.
(1)
It is understood from this hadith that it is not permissible to engage in non-shari‘ah-compliant beautification in order to please the husband. Nowadays, so-called enlightened women perform many non-shari‘ah acts for artificial beauty that are attractive to men. Among these is the use of artificial hair wigs. This is prohibited because such acts are done by immoral and shameless women, and it is also tantamount to altering the creation of Allah.
(2)
In any case, it is understood from this hadith that if the husband commands something contrary to the shari‘ah, the woman should not obey him. In such circumstances, she will not incur any sin, nor will this act be considered as disobedience to the husband.
Wallahu al-musta‘an.
Source: Hidayat al-Qari: Commentary on Sahih Bukhari, Urdu, Page: 5205
