صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كتاب النكاح
The Book of (The Wedlock)
بَابُ حَقِّ إِجَابَةِ الْوَلِيمَةِ وَالدَّعْوَةِ:
(72) Chapter. It is obligatory to accept the invitation to a Walima (wedding banquet) and other invitations.
Hadith 5175
حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ الرَّبِيعِ ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْأَحْوَصِ ، عَنْ الْأَشْعَثِ ، عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ سُوَيْدٍ ، قَالَ الْبَرَاءُ بْنُ عَازِبٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا : " أَمَرَنَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِسَبْعٍ ، وَنَهَانَا عَنْ سَبْعٍ ، أَمَرَنَا : بِعِيَادَةِ الْمَرِيضِ ، وَاتِّبَاعِ الْجِنَازَةِ ، وَتَشْمِيتِ الْعَاطِسِ ، وَإِبْرَارِ الْقَسَمِ ، وَنَصْرِ الْمَظْلُومِ ، وَإِفْشَاءِ السَّلَامِ ، وَإِجَابَةِ الدَّاعِي ، وَنَهَانَا عَنْ : خَوَاتِيمِ الذَّهَبِ ، وَعَنْ آنِيَةِ الْفِضَّةِ ، وَعَنِ الْمَيَاثِرِ وَالْقَسِّيَّةِ وَالْإِسْتَبْرَقِ وَالدِّيبَاجِ " . تَابَعَهُ أَبُو عَوَانَةَ ،وَالشَّيْبَانِيُّ ، عَنْ أَشْعَثَ فِي إِفْشَاءِ السَّلَامِ .
Narrated Al-Bara' bin `Azib: The Prophet ordered us to do seven (things) and forbade us from seven. He ordered us to visit the patients, to follow the funeral procession, to reply to the sneezer (i.e., say to him, 'Yarhamuka-l-lah (May Allah bestow His Mercy upon you), if he says 'Al-hamduli l-lah' (Praise be to Allah), to help others to fulfill their oaths, to help the oppressed, to greet (whomever one should meet), and to accept the invitation (to a wedding banquet). He forbade us to wear golden rings, to use silver utensils, to use Maiyathir (cushions of silk stuffed with cotton and placed under the rider on the saddle), the Qasiyya (linen clothes containing silk brought from an Egyptian town), the Istibraq (thick silk) and the Dibaj (another kind of silk). (See Hadith No. 539 and 753).
