صحيح البخاري
Sahih Bukhari
كتاب النكاح
The Book of (The Wedlock)
بَابُ الثَّيِّبَاتِ:
(10) Chapter. The marrying of matrons (divorced or widowed ladies).
Hadith 5080
حَدَّثَنَا آدَمُ ، حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَارِبٌ ، قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا ، يَقُولُ : تَزَوَّجْتُ ، فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : مَا تَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ فَقُلْتُ : تَزَوَّجْتُ ثَيِّبًا ، فَقَالَ : مَا لَكَ وَلِلْعَذَارَى وَلِعَابِهَا ، فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِعَمْرِو بْنِ دِينَارٍ ، فَقَالَ عَمْرٌو : سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ ، يَقُولُ : قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : " هَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ " .
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
