حَدَّثَنَا
مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ ، حَدَّثَنَا
عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ ، حَدَّثَنَا
عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ ، عَنْ
وَهْبِ بْنِ كَيْسَانَ ، عَنْ
جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ ، قَالَ : "كُنْتُ مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي غَزَاةٍ ، فَأَبْطَأَ بِي جَمَلِي وَأَعْيَا ، فَأَتَى عَلَيَّ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، فَقَالَ : جَابِرٌ ؟ فَقُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : مَا شَأْنُكَ ؟ قُلْتُ : أَبْطَأَ عَلَيَّ جَمَلِي ، وَأَعْيَا ، فَتَخَلَّفْتُ ، فَنَزَلَ يَحْجُنُهُ بِمِحْجَنِهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : ارْكَبْ ، فَرَكِبْتُ ، فَلَقَدْ رَأَيْتُهُ أَكُفُّهُ عَنِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ، قَالَ : تَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ، قُلْتُ : بَلْ ثَيِّبًا ، قَالَ : أَفَلَا جَارِيَةً تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ ، قُلْتُ : إِنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٍ فَأَحْبَبْتُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ امْرَأَةً تَجْمَعُهُنَّ وَتَمْشُطُهُنَّ وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ ، قَالَ : أَمَّا إِنَّكَ قَادِمٌ ، فَإِذَا قَدِمْتَ فَالْكَيْسَ الْكَيْسَ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ : أَتَبِيعُ جَمَلَكَ ؟ قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، فَاشْتَرَاهُ مِنِّي بِأُوقِيَّةٍ ، ثُمَّ قَدِمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَبْلِي ، وَقَدِمْتُ بِالْغَدَاةِ ، فَجِئْنَا إِلَى الْمَسْجِدِ ، فَوَجَدْتُهُ عَلَى بَابِ الْمَسْجِدِ ، قَالَ : آلْآنَ قَدِمْتَ ، قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : فَدَعْ جَمَلَكَ فَادْخُلْ فَصَلِّ رَكْعَتَيْنِ ، فَدَخَلْتُ فَصَلَّيْتُ ، فَأَمَرَ بِلَالًا أَنْ يَزِنَ لَهُ أُوقِيَّةً ، فَوَزَنَ لِي بِلَالٌ ، فَأَرْجَحَ لِي فِي الْمِيزَانِ ، فَانْطَلَقْتُ حَتَّى وَلَّيْتُ ، فَقَالَ : ادْعُ لِيجَابِرًا ، قُلْتُ : الْآنَ يَرُدُّ عَلَيَّ الْجَمَلَ ، وَلَمْ يَكُنْ شَيْءٌ أَبْغَضَ إِلَيَّ مِنْهُ ، قَالَ : خُذْ جَمَلَكَ وَلَكَ ثَمَنُهُ " .
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: I was with the Prophet in a Ghazwa (Military Expedition) and my camel was slow and exhausted. The Prophet came up to me and said, "O Jabir." I replied, "Yes?" He said, "What is the matter with you?" I replied, "My camel is slow and tired, so I am left behind." So, he got down and poked the camel with his stick and then ordered me to ride. I rode the camel and it became so fast that I had to hold it from going ahead of Allah's Apostle . He then asked me, have you got married?" I replied in the affirmative. He asked, "A virgin or a matron?" I replied, "I married a matron." The Prophet said, "Why have you not married a virgin, so that you may play with her and she may play with you?" Jabir replied, "I have sisters (young in age) so I liked to marry a matron who could collect them all and comb their hair and look after them." The Prophet said, "You will reach, so when you have arrived (at home), I advise you to associate with your wife (that you may have an intelligent son)." Then he asked me, "Would you like to sell your camel?" I replied in the affirmative and the Prophet purchased it for one Uqiya of gold. Allah's Apostle reached before me and I reached in the morning, and when I went to the mosque, I found him at the door of the mosque. He asked me, "Have you arrived just now?" I replied in the affirmative. He said, "Leave your camel and come into (the mosque) and pray two rak`at." I entered and offered the prayer. He told Bilal to weigh and give me one Uqiya of gold. So Bilal weighed for me fairly and I went away. The Prophet sent for me and I thought that he would return to me my camel which I hated more than anything else. But the Prophet said to me, "Take your camel as well as its price."