It was asked from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) about a man who married a woman, neither fixed her dowry nor had intercourse with her, and then died. Alqama says: You returned them, then said: I am only presenting my opinion in this matter. If it is correct, then it is from Allah, and if it is wrong, then it is from myself. My opinion is that she will receive a dowry equal to that of women like her, neither less nor more. She will also be entitled to inheritance and 'iddah will also be obligatory upon her. Sayyiduna Ma'qil bin Sinan Ashja'i (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up and said: I bear witness that you have given the same verdict as the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) gave regarding the woman Barwa' bint Washiq of Banu Ruwas. Banu Ruwas is a clan of Banu Amir bin Sa'sa'ah.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 718
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح: مسند الإمام أحمد: 480/3، سنن أبي داود: 2115، سنن النسائي: 3359، سنن الترمذي: 1145، سنن ابن ماجه: 1891، اس حدیث کو امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے حسن صحیح، امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4099) نے صحیح کہا ہے، سند میں ابراہیم نخعی مدلس ہیں، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی۔ سنن نسائی (3360) میں حسن سند کے ساتھ اس کا شاہد موجود ہے، اسے امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4101) نے صحیح اور امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (180/2) نے امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے۔ حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Abu Musa Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no marriage without the permission of a guardian.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 703
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح : تقدم تخريجه في الرقم : 701 من هذا الكتاب»
Sayyiduna Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no marriage without the permission of a guardian. Shareek has narrated this hadith as connected and marfu‘.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 704
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح : انظر الرقم : 701»
Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) obtained captives from Banu Mustaliq, Lady Juwayriya bint al-Harith (may Allah be pleased with her) came into the share of Thabit bin Qais bin Shamas (may Allah be pleased with him) or his cousin. Lady Juwayriya (may Allah be pleased with her) made a contract of manumission (i.e., set a price for her freedom) with him. She was a very beautiful woman; whoever saw her, she would settle in his heart. She came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to seek help for her manumission. Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) says: By Allah! When I saw her at the door of the chamber, I disliked it, and I was sure that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) would also see in her the quality (beauty) that I am seeing. She said: O Messenger of Allah! I am Juwayriya, the daughter of Harith bin Abi Dhirar, who is the chief of his people. The distress that has come upon me is not hidden from you. I have come into the share of Thabit bin Qais or his cousin, and I have made a contract of manumission with him. I have come to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) to seek help for my manumission. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Would you like something better than that? She asked: O Messenger of Allah! What is that (better)? He said: I will pay your manumission amount and marry you. She said: That is fine. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I have done this. The news spread among the people that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) had married Juwayriya bint al-Harith (may Allah be pleased with her). People began to say: They have become the in-laws of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him). Thus, they freed all the captives of Banu Mustaliq who were in their possession. The marriage of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) with Lady Juwayriya (may Allah be pleased with her) freed a hundred families of Banu Mustaliq. We do not know of any woman who proved to be more blessed for her people than her.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 705
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده حسن : مسند الإمام أحمد : 277/6 ، سنن أبي داود : 3931 ، اس حدیث کو امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4054، 4055) نے صحیح کہا ہے، حافظ ابن حجر رحمہ اللہ ( الدرایۃ : 294/2 ، ح : 1061) نے اس کی سند صحیح کیا ہے۔»
Sayyida Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that I heard a statement (hadith) from the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) which is dearer to me than receiving (so much) wealth: Whoever is afflicted by a calamity... etc., she mentioned part of the hadith. The narrator says: Then the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) sent her a marriage proposal, so she said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is most welcome (i.e., I accept your proposal), but there are three matters because of which I fear marrying the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him): I am a woman of intense jealousy (anger), I have no guardian to marry me off, and I am a woman with children. When Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) heard this, he became so angry for the sake of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) that he had never been so angry even for his own sake. Her (Umm Salamah’s) words reached the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), so he came to her and said: As for the jealousy (anger) you mentioned, I will pray to Allah Almighty that He removes your jealousy. As for the matter of children you mentioned, Allah Almighty will suffice them. And as for your saying that you have no guardian here to marry you to me, then none of your guardians will dislike me, whether he is present or absent. Umm Salamah (may Allah be pleased with her) said to her son: Marry me to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), so he married her to him.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 706
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده حسن وللحديث شواهد
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده حسن وللحديث شواهد : مسند أبي يعلى : 6907، مسند الإمام أحمد : 295/6، 313، 317، سنن أبي داود : 3119 مختصراً، سنن النسائي : 3256 ، اس حدیث کو امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (2949) نے صحیح کہا ہے، امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (16/4، 17) نے صحیح الاسناد اور حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے صحیح قرار دیا ہے۔»
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: A previously married woman should not be married off without consulting her, and a virgin should not be married off without her permission. He was asked: O Messenger of Allah! How is her permission to be taken? He said: That she remains silent.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 707
Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Take permission or consult women regarding their bodies (marriage). It was asked: A virgin girl remains silent out of shyness? He said: Her silence is her permission. In the narration of Mukhrami: She feels shy, so the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: That is her permission.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 708
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: A widow has more right over herself than her guardian, and a virgin should be consulted regarding her desire, and her silence will be considered as her consent.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 709
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحیح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحیح مسلم : 1421»
Sayyidah Khansa bint Khidam Ansariyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that she was previously married. Her father married her off against her wishes. She came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and related the incident, so he annulled her marriage.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 710
Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married me, I was six years old, and when he consummated the marriage with me, I was nine years old.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 711
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There are three matters which, whether done intentionally or in jest, become effective: 1. Marriage, 2. Divorce, 3. Taking back (one’s wife after divorce).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 712
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده حسن
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده حسن : سنن أبي داود : 2194، سنن الترمذي : 1184 ، سنن ابن ماجه : 2039، امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے اس حدیث کو حسن غریب اور امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (198/2) نے "صحیح الاسناد" کہا ہے، حافظ ابن حجر رحمہ اللہ (التلخيص الحبير : 210/3) نے اسے حسن کہا ہے، راوی عبدالرحمن بن حبیب بن اردک ”حسن الحدیث“ ہے، اس حدیث کو ذکر کرنے کے بعد امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ فرماتے ہیں: وَالْعَمَلُ عَلَى هَذَا عِنْدَ أَهْلِ العِلْمِ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَغَيْرِهِمْ.»
Lady Umm Habibah (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) married her, she was in the land of Abyssinia. The Negus performed her marriage to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and gave her four thousand (dirhams) as dowry and trousseau from his own side, and sent her with Shurahbil bin Hasanah (to the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) did not send anything to her, and the dowry of his (other) wives was four hundred dirhams.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 713
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف : مسند الإمام أحمد : 427/6 ، سنن أبي داود : 2086 ، سنن النسائي : 3352، اس حدیث کو امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (181/2) نے امام بخاری رحمہ اللہ اور امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے، حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔ امام زہری رحمہ اللہ ”مدلس“ ہیں ، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی۔»
Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman bin Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) married an Ansari woman, so the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked him: How much did you give her as mahr (dowry)? He replied: I gave her gold equal to the weight of a date stone. Ibn Abi Najih says: "Nawah" refers to five dirhams, "Nash" to twenty dirhams, and "Uqiyyah" to forty dirhams.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 715
Sayyiduna Sahl bin Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that we were sitting with some people when a woman said: O Messenger of Allah! I offer myself to you, please express your opinion about me. A man stood up and said: Marry her to me. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Go and look for something, even if it is an iron ring. The narrator says: He went and brought neither an iron ring nor anything else. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) asked: Do you know any portion of the Qur’an by heart? He said: Yes! The narrator says: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) married her to him in exchange for the portions of the Qur’an that he knew by heart.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 716
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that in the Prophetic era, our dowry used to be ten uqiyah.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 717
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده صحيح: مسند الإمام أحمد: 367/2، سنن النسائي: 3350، اس حدیث کو امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4097) نے صحیح اور امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (175/2) نے امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے، حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Abu Musa Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no marriage without the permission of a guardian.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 702
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح : انظر الحديث السابق»
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade shighar (exchange marriage).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 719
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Umar (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade shighar (exchange marriage). Shighar is when a man marries his daughter to another man on the condition that the latter marries his daughter to him, and no dowry is given in either marriage.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 720
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) set Lady Safiyyah (may Allah be pleased with her) free and made her freedom her dowry.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 721
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever has two wives and inclines towards one of them (does not maintain equality between them), he will come on the Day of Resurrection with half of his body paralyzed.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 722
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف: مسند الإمام أحمد: 347/2، 471، سنن أبي داود: 2133، سنن النسائي: 3942، سنن الترمذي: 1141، سنن ابن ماجه: 1969، اس حدیث کو امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4207) نے صحیح اور امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (186/2) نے امام بخاری رحمہ اللہ اور امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے، حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔ قتادہ مدلس ہیں، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی۔ اخبار اصبہان لأبی نعیم الاصبہانی (300/2) میں اس کا ایک ”ضعیف“ شاہد آتا ہے، اس میں محمد بن حارث حارثی ”ضعیف“ ہے۔»
The noble wife of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), narrates that when the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) intended to go on a journey, he would draw lots among his wives, and the one whose name was drawn, he would take her along with him.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 723
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) says: The Sunnah is that when a person marries a virgin girl, he should stay with her for seven nights, and when he marries a previously married woman (thayyibah), he should stay with her for three nights.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 724
The noble wife of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), narrates that when the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) intended to go on a journey, he would draw lots among his wives, and the one whose name was drawn, he would take her along. The Prophet (peace be upon him) had allocated one day and one night for each wife. However, Sayyidah Sawdah bint Zam’ah (may Allah be pleased with her) gave her turn to Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) in order to please the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 725
Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that Sayyiduna Abdur Rahman bin Awf (may Allah be pleased with him) got married, so the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: Hold a wedding feast (walimah), even if it is with only one goat.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 726
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that when the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) married Lady Hafsa (may Allah be pleased with her) or another wife, he held a wedding feast (walimah) with dates and sattu (roasted barley flour).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 727
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح: مسند الحميدي: 1218، سنن أبي داود: 3744، سنن الترمذي: 1095، سنن ابن ماجه: 1909، اس حدیث کو امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے حسن غریب اور امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4061) نے صحیح کہا ہے، صحیحین میں اس کا شاہد موجود ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Khuzaymah bin Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah does not feel shy to state the truth, so do not have intercourse with women in their backs.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 728
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح له شواهد
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح له شواهد: مسند الحميدي: 440، مسند الإمام أحمد: 213/5، السنن الكبرى للنسائي: 8933، السنن الكبرى للبيهقي: 196/7، اس حدیث کو امام ابوعوانہ رحمہ اللہ (4294) اور امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4198) نے صحیح کہا ہے، سفیان بن عیینہ نے سماع کی تصریح کر رکھی ہے۔ مسند الإمام أحمد (86/1) اور سنن ترمذی (1164) میں اس کا بسندِ حسن شاہد بھی آتا ہے، اسے امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے ”حسن“ اور امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4199) نے صحیح کہا ہے، اس کا راوی مسلم بن سلام حنفی ”حسن الحدیث“ ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah Almighty will not look (with mercy) at the person who commits sodomy with a man or has intercourse with a woman in her backside.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 729
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«صحيح: السنن الكبرى للنسائي: 9001-9002، سنن الترمذي: 1165، مسند أبي يعلى: 2378، اس حدیث کو امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے حسن اور امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4203، 4204، 4418) نے صحیح کہا ہے، سیدنا ابوہریرہ رضی اللہ عنہ سے سنن ابن ماجہ (1923) اور شرح معانی الآثار للطحاوی (44/3) میں بسندِ حسن شاہد بھی آتا ہے، الفاظ یہ ہیں: «لَا يَنْظُرُ اللهُ إِلَى رَجُلٍ جَامَعَ امْرَأَتَهُ فِي دُبُرِهَا». اس حدیث کے بارے میں امام اسحاق بن راہویہ رحمہ اللہ فرماتے ہیں: ”وقد صح عنہ“۔ (مسائل الإمام أحمد وإسحاق: 3531) حافظ بوصیری رحمہ اللہ کہتے ہیں: ”إسنادہ صحیح، لأن ابن مخلد ذکرہ ابن حبان فی الثقات وباقی رجال الإسناد ثقات“۔ (مصباح الزجاجة: 97/2) اس کا راوی حارث بن مخلد ”صدوق حسن الحدیث“ ہے۔»
Lady Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that Sayyiduna Abd bin Zam‘a and Sayyiduna Sa‘d (may Allah be pleased with them both) argued about the son of Zam‘a’s slave woman. Sayyiduna Sa‘d (may Allah be pleased with him) said: My brother made a bequest to me that when I come to Mecca, I should take the son of Zam‘a’s slave woman into my custody, because he is my son. Abd bin Zam‘a said: This is the son of my father’s slave woman and was born on my father’s bed. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), seeing the clear resemblance to ‘Utbah (Sa‘d’s brother), said: Abd bin Zam‘a! The child is yours, for the child belongs to the bed (i.e., to the owner of the bed). And (Lady) Sawda (bint Zam‘a) (may Allah be pleased with her)! You should observe veil from this boy.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 730
Sayyiduna Ruwayfi’ bin Thabit Al-Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, it is not permissible for him to let his water (semen) flow into another’s child, nor is it permissible for him not to let his water flow into another’s child (i.e., he should not have intercourse with a pregnant woman who is carrying another man’s child).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 731
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده صحيح له طرق وشواهد
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده صحيح له طرق وشواهد: مسند الإمام أحمد: 108/4، سنن أبي داود: 2158، سنن الترمذي: 1131، اس حدیث کو امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے حسن اور امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4850) نے ”صحیح“ کہا ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) on the day of the Battle of Khaybar forbade (the eating of) the meat of (domestic) donkeys, the meat of every predatory animal with fangs, and intercourse with captive women until they have completed one menstrual cycle.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 732
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف: مسند أبي يعلى: 2491، امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (40/2) نے امام بخاری رحمہ اللہ اور امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے، حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔ اعمش مدلس ہیں، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی۔ اعمش کی متابعت ابن ابی نجیح ”مدلس“ نے سنن نسائی (4649)، سنن دارقطنی (68/3، 69) اور مسند ابی یعلی (2414) میں کی ہے، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی، اسے امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (56/2) نے ”صحیح الاسناد“ اور حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے صحیح کہا ہے۔»
The noble wife of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said: Suckling (breastfeeding) also makes unlawful those relationships which are made unlawful by birth (lineage).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 687
Sayyiduna Samurah (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade celibacy (abstaining from marriage).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 673
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده ضعيف والحديث صحيح بشواهد
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف والحديث صحيح بشواهد : مسند الإمام أحمد : 17/5، سنن النسائي : 3216، سنن الترمذي : 1082 ، سنن ابن ماجه : 1849 ، قتادہ مدلس ہیں ، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی ،اس کے مسند الامام احمد (158/3، 235، وسندہ حسن ) وغیرہ میں صحیح شواہد ہیں۔»
Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Abi Waqqas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that Sayyiduna ‘Uthman bin Maz’un (may Allah be pleased with him) wanted to practice celibacy, but the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) forbade him from doing so. Sayyiduna Sa’d narrates: If the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) had permitted it, we would have become eunuchs.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 674
Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that I sent a marriage proposal to a woman, so the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) asked me: Have you seen her? I replied: No! He said: Look at her, for it is more likely that affection will develop between you.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 675
Hadith Gradingغلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:إسناده ضعيف لانقطاعه والحديث صحيح
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف لانقطاعه والحديث صحيح : مسند الإمام أحمد : 244/4، 245، 246، سنن النسائي : 3235، سنن الترمذي : 1087، سنن ابن ماجه : 1866 ، امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ نے اس حدیث کو حسن کہا ہے، بکر بن عبد اللہ مزنی کا سیدنا مغیرہ بن شعبہ رضی اللہ عنہ سے سماع نہیں ہے، امام یحیی بن معین رحمہ اللہ فرماتے ہیں: لَمْ يَسْمَعْ بَكْرٌ مِّنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ . تهذيب التهذيب لابن حجر : 484/1) امام ابو عوانہ رحمہ اللہ فرماتے ہیں: فِي سَمَاع بَكْرٍ مِّنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ نَظَرٌ. (صحيح أبي عوانة : 4036) امام حاكم رحمہ اللہ فرماتے ہیں : لَمْ يَسْمَعْ مِنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ إِنَّمَا يَرْوِي عَنِ ابْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ . (سؤالات السجزي للحاكم : 166) باقی ابو معاویہ کی متابعت موجود ہے، اگلی حدیث اس کا شاہد ہے۔»
Sayyiduna Mughirah bin Shu’bah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that he sent a marriage proposal to a woman, so the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Go and look at her, for this will create more affection between you.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 676
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيف : سنن ابن ماجه : 1865 ، سنن الدارقطني : 253/3 ، اس حدیث کو امام ابن حبان رحمہ اللہ (4043) نے صحیح کہا ہے، امام حاکم رحمہ اللہ (165/2) نے امام بخاری رحمہ اللہ اور امام مسلم رحمہ اللہ کی شرط پر صحیح کہا ہے۔ حافظ ذہبی رحمہ اللہ نے ان کی موافقت کی ہے۔ معمر کی ثابت سے روایت میں کلام ہے۔»
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do not artificially raise prices (by bidding to increase the price), no townsman should sell for a villager, no man should make a deal over the deal of his (Muslim) brother, no man should propose over the proposal of his (Muslim) brother, and no woman should demand the divorce of her (Muslim) sister so that she may pour out her vessel.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 677
Sayyiduna Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: It is not appropriate for a woman to stipulate the divorce of her (Muslim) sister so that she may pour out her vessel.
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 678
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) taught us the tashahhud for prayer and for need. Thus, he mentioned both the tashahhud of prayer and the tashahhud of need, and said: The tashahhud of need should be recited as follows: "Indeed, all praise is for Allah, we praise Him, seek His help, and ask His forgiveness, and we seek refuge in Allah from the evils of our souls. Whomever Allah guides, none can misguide, and whomever He lets go astray, none can guide. I bear witness that there is no deity except Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger." Then he should recite three verses: "Fear Allah as He should be feared, and do not die except as Muslims." (Aal Imran: 102) "And fear Allah, by Whom you ask one another, and (respect) the ties of kinship. Indeed, Allah is ever an Observer over you." (An-Nisa: 1) "Fear Allah and speak words that are appropriate." (Al-Ahzab: 70) (Fear Allah as He should be feared, and let your death be upon Islam. Fear Allah by Whose name you ask one another, and take care of your relatives. Surely, Allah is watching over you. Fear Allah and speak rightly.)
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 679
Hadith Takhrijاز غلام مصطفےٰ ظهير امن پوري:«إسناده ضعيفٌ : مسند الإمام أحمد : 393/1، سنن أبي داود : 2118، سنن الترمذي : 1105 ، سنن النسائي : 1165 ، سنن ابن ماجہ : 1892 ، اس حدیث کو امام ترمذی رحمہ اللہ اور امام ابوعوانہ رحمہ اللہ (4143) نے صحیح کہا ہے۔ ابو اسحاق سبیعی مدلس ہیں ، سماع کی تصریح نہیں کی، جہاں ان سے شعبہ بیان کرتے ہیں، وہاں تدلیس کا اعتراض رفع ہو جاتا ہے لیکن وہاں انقطاع کی وجہ سے سند معلول ہے، ابو عبیدہ نے اپنے باپ سید نا عبداللہ بن مسعود رضی اللہ عنہ سے نہیں سنا، حافظ ابن حجر رحمہ اللہ لکھتے ہیں: فَإِنَّهُ عِنْدَ الْأَكْثَرِ لَمْ يَسْمَعْ مِنْ أَبِيهِ . (موافقة الخبر الخبر :364/1) نیز فرماتے ہیں: وَهُوَ لَمْ يَسْمَعْ مِنْهُ عِنْدَ الجُمْهُورِ (النكت على کتاب ابن الصلاح : 398/1)، مزید فرماتے ہیں : وَالرَّاجِحُ أَنَّهُ لَا يَصِحُ سَمَاعُهُ مِنْ أَبِيهِ (تقريب التهذيب : 8231) السنن الكبرى للبيهقي (146/7) وغیرہ میں اس کا ایک ”ضعیف“ شاہد بھی ہے، جو حریث بن ابی مطر فزاری "ضعیف" کی وجہ سے ضعیف ہے، اسی طرح دوسرا شاہد قتادہ مدلس کی وجہ سے ”ضعیف“ ہے۔»
Sayyida Umm Salama (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that Sayyida Umm Habiba (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O Messenger of Allah! Do you have an interest in my sister? He said: What should I do with her? She said: You should marry her. He said: Your sister? She said: Yes! He said: Do you like that? She replied: I am not the only one who is your wife, and I would prefer that my sister also share in this honor (of being your wife) with me. He said: She is not lawful for me (because two sisters cannot be married at the same time). Umm Habiba (may Allah be pleased with her) said: By Allah! I have come to know that you have sent a marriage proposal to Durrah or Dhurrah. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) asked: To the daughter of Umm Salama? She replied: Yes! He said: By Allah! Even if she were not my stepdaughter (the daughter of my wife from a previous husband), she would still not be lawful for me, because she is the daughter of my foster brother. Both her father and I were suckled by Thuwaibah, so do not offer your daughters and sisters to me (for marriage).
Hadith Referenceالمنتقى ابن الجارود / كتاب النكاح / 680