اللؤلؤ والمرجان
Lu'lu' wal-Marjan
كتاب الايمانBook of Faith
باب تحريم ضرب الخدود وشق الجيوب والدعاء بدعوى الجاهلية
Chapter: Prohibition of Striking the Cheeks, Tearing Clothes, and Pre-Islamic Calls
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Hadith 65
65 صحيح حديث عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ مَسْعودٍ رضي الله عنه قَالَ: قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَيْسَ مِنّا مَنْ ضَرَبَ الْخُدُودَ، وَشَقَّ الْجُيُوبَ، وَدَعا بِدَعْوى الْجاهِلِيَّةِ
Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Mas'ud (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever slaps his cheeks, tears his collar, and calls with the calls of the days of ignorance is not from among us.
Hadith 66
66 صحيح حديث أَبي مُوسَى رضي الله عنه وَجِعَ أَبُو مُوسَى وَجَعًا شَديدًا فَغُشِي عَلَيْهِ وَرَأْسُهُ في حَجْرِ امْرَأَةٍ مِنْ أَهْلِهِ، فَلَمْ يَسْتَطِعْ أَنْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيْها شَيْئًا؛ فَلَمَّا أَفاقَ قَالَ أَنا بَرِيءٌ مِمَّنْ بَرئَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بَرِئَ مِنَ الصَّالِقَةِ وَالْحالِقَةِ وَالشَّاقَّةِ
Sayyiduna Abu Musa Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him) fell ill to the extent that he lost consciousness, and his head was in the lap of one of his wives (Umm Abdullah bint Abi Rumah). (She let out a loud scream and began to weep.) Abu Musa (may Allah be pleased with him) could not say anything at that time, but when he regained consciousness, he said: "I disassociate myself from the act from which the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) disassociated himself. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) expressed his disapproval of women who, in times of grief, wail loudly, shave their heads, or tear their collars."
