Hadith 13261
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَجُلٌ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ: أَيْنَ أَبِي؟ قَالَ: ”فِي النَّارِ“ قَالَ: فَلَمَّا رَأَى مَا فِي وَجْهِهِ قَالَ: ”إِنَّ أَبِي وَأَبَاكَ فِي النَّارِ“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, that a man asked the Noble Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him: "Where is my father?" The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, replied: "In Hell." Then, when the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, saw signs of grief on his face, he said: "My father and your father are both in Hell."
Hadith 13262
وَعَنْ أَبِي رَزِينٍ لَقِيطِ بْنِ عَامِرِ بْنِ الْمُنْتَفِقِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَيْنَ أُمِّي؟ قَالَ: ”أُمُّكَ فِي النَّارِ“ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: فَأَيْنَ مَنْ مَضَى مِنْ أَهْلِي؟ قَالَ: ”أَمَا تَرْضَى أَنْ تَكُونَ أُمُّكَ مَعَ أُمِّي“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Laqit bin Amir (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: O Messenger of Allah! Where is my mother? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: In Hell. I said: Then where are your relatives who passed away before Islam? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Would you be pleased if your mother is with my mother?
Hadith 13263
وَعَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ بُرَيْدَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ بُرَيْدَةَ الْأَسْلَمِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ غَزَا غَزْوَةَ الْفَتْحِ فَخَرَجَ يَمْشِي إِلَى الْقُبُورِ حَتَّى إِذَا أَتَى إِلَى أَدْنَاهَا جَلَسَ إِلَيْهِ كَأَنَّهُ يُكَلِّمُ إِنْسَانًا جَالِسًا يَبْكِي قَالَ: فَاسْتَقْبَلَهُ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَقَالَ: مَا يُبْكِيكَ جَعَلَنِيَ اللَّهُ فِدَاكَ؟ قَالَ: ”سَأَلْتُ رَبِّي عَزَّ وَجَلَّ أَنْ يَأْذَنَ لِي فِي زِيَارَةِ قَبْرِ أُمِّ مُحَمَّدٍ فَأَذِنَ لِي فَسَأَلْتُهُ أَنْ يَأْذَنَ لِي فَأَسْتَغْفِرَ لَهَا فَأَبَى إِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ ثَلَاثَةِ أَشْيَاءَ عَنْ لُحُومِ الْأَضَاحِي أَنْ تَمَسَّكُوا بَعْدَ ثَلَاثَةِ أَيَّامٍ فَكُلُوا مَا بَدَا لَكُمْ وَعَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فَمَنْ شَاءَ فَلْيَزُرْ فَقَدْ أَذِنَ لِي فِي زِيَارَةِ قَبْرِ أُمِّ مُحَمَّدٍ وَمَنْ شَاءَ فَلْيَدَعْ وَعَنِ الظُّرُوفِ تَشْرَبُونَ فِيهَا الدُّبَّاءَ وَالْحَنْتَمَ وَالْمُزَفَّتَ وَأَمَرْتُكُمْ بِظُرُوفٍ وَإِنَّ الْوِعَاءَ لَا يُحِلُّ شَيْئًا وَلَا يُحَرِّمُهُ فَاجْتَنِبُوا كُلَّ مُسْكِرٍ“
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Buraidah Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him) that when the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) had finished with the conquest of Makkah, he proceeded towards the graveyard and sat down at its near side. It seemed as if he was talking to someone, and he was also weeping. Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) came before him and said: May Allah make me a sacrifice for you, why are you weeping? The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) replied: I sought permission from my Lord to visit my mother’s grave, and Allah granted me permission for that. But when I sought permission to pray for her forgiveness, He did not grant me that permission. I had forbidden you from three things: First, that you could not eat the meat of sacrificial animals after three days, but now you are permitted to eat it for as long as you wish. Second, I had forbidden you from visiting graveyards, but now whoever wishes to visit the graveyard may do so; I too have been granted permission to visit my mother’s grave. However, whoever does not wish to visit the graveyard, let him not go. Third, I had forbidden you from using gourds, green jars, and pitch-lined vessels, and had permitted you to use other vessels. Now the ruling is that no vessel makes anything lawful or unlawful, so you may use all vessels, but avoid every intoxicating thing.
Hadith 13264
وَعَنْهُ أَيْضًا مِنْ طَرِيقٍ آخَرَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ: كُنَّا مَعَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَنَزَلَ بِنَا وَنَحْنُ مَعَهُ قَرِيبٌ مِنْ أَلْفِ رَاكِبٍ فَصَلَّى رَكْعَتَيْنِ ثُمَّ أَقْبَلَ عَلَيْنَا بِوَجْهِهِ وَعَيْنَاهُ تَذْرِفَانِ فَقَامَ إِلَيْهِ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَفَدَاهُ بِالْأَبِ وَالْأُمِّ يَقُولُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا لَكَ؟ قَالَ: ”إِنِّي سَأَلْتُ رَبِّي عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي الِاسْتِغْفَارِ لِأُمِّي فَلَمْ يَأْذَنْ فَدَمَعَتْ عَيْنَايَ رَحْمَةً لَهَا مِنَ النَّارِ وَإِنِّي كُنْتُ نَهَيْتُكُمْ عَنْ ثَلَاثٍ عَنْ زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ“ فَذَكَرَ نَحْوَ الْحَدِيثِ الْمُتَقَدِّمِ
(Second chain) It is narrated from Sayyiduna Buraidah Aslami (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: We were on a journey with the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), during the journey the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stopped at a place, we were also with him, we were about a thousand riders, he performed two units of prayer. Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) turned his face towards us and tears were flowing from his eyes. Sayyiduna Umar bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) stood up and went to him and said: O Messenger of Allah! May my parents be sacrificed for you, what is the reason for your weeping? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I sought permission from my Lord to seek forgiveness for my mother, but He did not grant me permission, so I felt pity for her going to Hell and I began to weep. I had forbidden you from three things, one of them was visiting graves, ... . After this, the narration continues similar to the previous hadith.