الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
القسم الخامس: مسائل الترهيب من الكبائر وسائر المعاصيFifth Section: Issues Warning Against Major Sins and All Other Sins
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي التَرْهِيبِ مِنْ هَجْرِ الْمُسْلِمِ وَتَرْوِيعِهِ وَالاضْرَارِ به
Chapter on what has been narrated regarding warning against abandoning Muslims, frightening them, and harming them
Hadith 9780
عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَعْدِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((لَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Sa’d bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: It is not permissible for a Muslim to abandon his brother for more than three days.
Hadith 9781
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((لَا هِجْرَةَ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ فَمَنْ هَجَرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ فَمَاتَ دَخَلَ النَّارَ))
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no allowance for severing ties for more than three days; whoever severs ties with his brother for more than three days and then dies, he will enter the Fire.
Hadith 9782
عَنْهُ أَيْضًا قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((تُفْتَحُ أَبْوَابُ الْجَنَّةِ فِي كُلِّ اثْنَيْنِ وَخَمِيسٍ)) قَالَ مَعْمَرٌ وَقَالَ غَيْرُ سُهَيْلٍ ((وَتُعْرَضُ الْأَعْمَالُ فِي كُلِّ اثْنَيْنِ وَخَمِيسٍ فَيَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ لِكُلِّ عَبْدٍ لَا يُشْرِكُ بِهِ شَيْئًا إِلَّا الْمُتَشَاحِنَيْنِ يَقُولُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ لِلْمَلَائِكَةِ ذَرُوهُمَا حَتَّى يَصْطَلِحَا))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: The gates of Paradise are opened every Monday and Thursday. The wording of the other narrators, except Suhail, is as follows: Deeds are presented every Monday and Thursday, so Allah Almighty forgives every servant who does not associate anything with Allah, except for two people who harbor mutual hatred and enmity. Allah Almighty says to the angels: Leave these two until they reconcile.
Hadith 9783
عَنْ هِشَامِ بْنِ عَامِرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ ((لَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ مُسْلِمًا فَوْقَ ثَلَاثِ لَيَالٍ فَإِنْ كَانَ تَصَادُرًا فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ فَإِنَّهُمَا نَاكِبَانِ عَنِ الْحَقِّ مَا دَامَا عَلَى صُرَامِهِمَا وَأَوَّلُهُمَا فَيْئًا فَسَبْقُهُ بِالْفَيْءِ كَفَّارَتُهُ فَإِنْ سَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ عَلَيْهِ وَرَدَّ عَلَيْهِ سَلَامَهُ رَدَّتْ عَلَيْهِ الْمَلَائِكَةُ وَرَدَّ عَلَى الْآخَرِ الشَّيْطَانُ فَإِنْ مَاتَا عَلَى صِرَامِهِمَا لَمْ يَجْتَمِعَا فِي الْجَنَّةِ أَبَدًا وَلَهُ فِي رِوَايَةٍ أُخْرَى لَمْ يَدْخُلَا الْجَنَّةَ جَمِيعًا أَبَدًا))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Hisham bin ‘Amir (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: It is not lawful for any Muslim to abandon his brother for more than three nights; if they exceed three, then as long as they persist in severing relations, they will remain deviated from the truth. And whoever among them returns first, his return will be an expiation for his sins. So if he greets (with salam) but the other does not reply and rejects his greeting, then the angels will reply to him and the other’s reply will be given by Satan. If such two people die while persisting in their severance, they will never be gathered together in Paradise. In another narration: They will never enter Paradise.
Hadith 9784
عَنْ أَبِي خِرَاشٍ السُّلَمِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ ((مَنْ هَجَرَ أَخَاهُ سَنَةً فَهُوَ كَسَفْكِ دَمِهِ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Khirash Salmi, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: Whoever abandons his brother for a year, it is as if he has shed his blood.
Hadith 9785
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ ((لَا تَبَاغَضُوا وَلَا تَحَاسَدُوا وَلَا تَدَابَرُوا وَكُونُوا عِبَادَ اللَّهِ إِخْوَانًا وَلَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثِ لَيَالٍ يَلْتَقِيَانِ فَيَصُدُّ هَذَا وَيَصُدُّ هَذَا وَخَيْرُهُمَا الَّذِي يَبْدَأُ بِالسَّلَامِ))
Narrated by Sayyiduna Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do not harbor malice and envy against one another, avoid mutual estrangement and enmity, O servants of Allah! Become brothers to one another. It is not permissible for any Muslim to abandon his brother for more than three days; when the two meet, this one turns away and that one turns away, and the better of the two is the one who initiates the greeting of peace.
Hadith 9786
عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ يَزِيدَ عَنْ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ يَذْكُرُ فِيهِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((لَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثٍ يَلْتَقِيَانِ فَيَصُدُّ هَذَا وَيَصُدُّ هَذَا وَخَيْرُهُمَا الَّذِي يَبْدَأُ بِالسَّلَامِ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: It is not lawful for a Muslim to abandon his brother for more than three days; when the two meet, this one turns away and that one turns away, and the better of the two is the one who initiates the greeting of peace.
Hadith 9787
عَنْ عَوْفِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ وَهُوَ ابْنُ أَخِي عَائِشَةَ لِأُمِّهَا رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا حَدَّثَتْهُ أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ قَالَ فِي بَيْعٍ أَوْ عَطَاءٍ أَعْطَتْهُ وَاللَّهِ لَتَنْتَهِيَنَّ عَائِشَةُ أَوْ لَأَحْجُرَنَّ عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ أَوَ قَالَ هَذَا قَالَ نَعَمْ قَالَتْ هُوَ لِلَّهِ عَلَيَّ نَذْرٌ أَنْ لَا أُكَلِّمَ ابْنَ الزُّبَيْرِ كَلِمَةً أَبَدًا فَاسْتَشْفَعَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ الزُّبَيْرِ الْمِسْوَرَ بْنَ مَخْرَمَةَ وَعَبْدَ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنَ الْأَسْوَدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ يَغُوثَ وَهُمَا مِنْ بَنِي زُهْرَةَ فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ وَطَفِقَ الْمِسْوَرُ وَعَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ يُنَاشِدَانِ عَائِشَةَ إِلَّا كَلَّمَتْهُ وَقَبِلَتْ مِنْهُ وَيَقُولَانِ لَهَا إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَدْ نَهَى عَمَّا قَدْ عَلِمْتِ مِنَ الْهَجْرِ أَنْ لَا يَحِلَّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يَهْجُرَ أَخَاهُ فَوْقَ ثَلَاثِ لَيَالٍ
It is narrated from ‘Awf bin Harith, who was the maternal nephew of Sayyidah Aisha, that Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with them both) said regarding some transaction or gift about Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): “By Allah! Either Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) will desist, or I will impose a restriction upon her.” Sayyidah asked: “Did he really say this?” He replied: “Yes.” Sayyidah said: “I vow to Allah that I will never speak to Ibn Zubair.” Then Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with them both) requested Sayyiduna Miswar bin Makhramah and Abdur Rahman bin Aswad bin ‘Abd Yaghuth (may Allah be pleased with them both) to intercede with Sayyidah on his behalf. These two men were from the Banu Zuhrah tribe, … … , then Miswar and Abdur Rahman began to plead with Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), insisting that she must speak to him and accept his apology, and they also told Sayyidah that: “You know that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) has forbidden severing ties, and it is not permissible for any Muslim to cut off relations with his brother for more than three days.”
Hadith 9788
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ ((أَبْغَضُ الرِّجَالِ الْأَلَدُّ الْخَصِمُ))
It is narrated from Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The most disliked person among the people is the one who is extremely quarrelsome.
Hadith 9789
عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ مَوْلَى بَنِي مُغَالَةَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ وَأَبَا طَلْحَةَ بْنَ سَهْلٍ الْأَنْصَارِيَّيْنِ يَقُولَانِ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((مَا مِنْ امْرِئٍ يَخْذُلُ امْرَأً مُسْلِمًا عِنْدَ مَوْطِنٍ تُنْتَهَكُ فِيهِ حُرْمَتُهُ وَيُنْتَقَصُ فِيهِ مِنْ عِرْضِهِ إِلَّا خَذَلَهُ اللَّهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ فِي مَوْطِنٍ يُحِبُّ فِيهِ نُصْرَتَهُ وَمَا مِنْ امْرِئٍ يَنْصُرُ امْرَأً مُسْلِمًا فِي مَوْطِنٍ يُنْتَقَصُ فِيهِ مِنْ عِرْضِهِ وَيُنْتَهَكُ فِيهِ مِنْ حُرْمَتِهِ إِلَّا نَصَرَهُ اللَّهُ فِي مَوْطِنٍ يُحِبُّ فِيهِ نُصْرَتَهُ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) and Sayyiduna Abu Talhah bin Sahl Ansari (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever humiliates a Muslim at a place where his sanctity is violated and his honor is diminished, Allah Almighty will humiliate that person at a place where he would like to be helped. Whoever helps his Muslim brother at such a place where his honor is being diminished and his sanctity is being violated, then Allah Almighty will help that person at a place where he would like to be helped.
Hadith 9790
عَنْ وَقَّاصِ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ أَنَّ الْمُسْتَوْرِدَ حَدَّثَهُمْ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ ((مَنْ أَكَلَ بِرَجُلٍ مُسْلِمٍ أَكْلَةً وَقَالَ مَرَّةً أُكْلَةً فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ يُطْعِمُهُ مِثْلَهَا مِنْ جَهَنَّمَ وَمَنِ اكْتَسَى بِرَجُلٍ مُسْلِمٍ ثَوْبًا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ يَكْسُوهُ مِثْلَهُ مِنْ جَهَنَّمَ وَمَنْ قَامَ بِرَجُلٍ مُسْلِمٍ مَقَامَ سُمْعَةٍ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ يَقُومُ بِهِ مَقَامَ سُمْعَةٍ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ))
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mustawrid bin Shaddad (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever eats a morsel (of food) by backbiting, insulting, or harming a Muslim, Allah Almighty will feed him a similar morsel from Hell. Whoever wears a garment (by dishonoring) a Muslim, Allah Almighty will clothe him with a similar garment from Hell. And whoever stands in a place of fame because of another person, Allah Almighty will make him stand in a place of fame on the Day of Resurrection.
Hadith 9791
عَنْ أَبِي صِرْمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ مَنْ ضَارَّ أَضَرَّ اللَّهُ بِهِ وَمَنْ شَاقَّ شَقَّ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ
Narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Surmah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever harms someone, Allah will harm him, and whoever causes hardship to someone, Allah will cause hardship to him.
Hadith 9792
عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ أَتَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى قَوْمٍ يَتَعَاطَوْنَ سَيْفًا مَسْلُولًا فَقَالَ لَعَنَ اللَّهُ مَنْ فَعَلَ هَذَا أَوَلَيْسَ قَدْ نَهَيْتُ عَنْ هَذَا ثُمَّ قَالَ إِذَا سَلَّ أَحَدُكُمْ سَيْفَهُ فَنَظَرَ إِلَيْهِ فَأَرَادَ أَنْ يُنَاوِلَهُ أَخَاهُ فَلْيُغَمِّدْهُ ثُمَّ يُنَاوِلَهُ إِيَّاهُ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Bakrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) came to a group of people who were handing over a naked sword to each other. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: May Allah curse the person who does this. Did I not forbid you from doing so? Then the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When a person draws a sword and looks at it, and then wants to hand it over to another, he should cover it with something before giving it.
Hadith 9793
عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَصْحَابُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنَّهُمْ كَانُوا يَسِيرُونَ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي مَسِيرٍ فَنَامَ رَجُلٌ مِنْهُمْ فَانْطَلَقَ بَعْضُهُمْ إِلَى نَبْلٍ مَعَهُ فَأَخَذَهَا فَلَمَّا اسْتَيْقَظَ الرَّجُلُ فَزِعَ فَضَحِكَ الْقَوْمُ فَقَالَ مَا يُضْحِكُكُمْ فَقَالُوا لَا إِلَّا أَنَّا أَخَذْنَا نَبْلَ هَذَا فَفَزِعَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَا يَحِلُّ لِمُسْلِمٍ أَنْ يُرَوِّعَ مُسْلِمًا
It is narrated from Abdur Rahman bin Laili, he says: The companions of the Prophet told us that they were walking with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, when a man fell asleep. Some companions went to him and took his arrows. When he woke up, he became alarmed, and the people laughed. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, asked: Why are you laughing? They said: Nothing, we just took his arrows and he became alarmed. The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: It is not lawful for a Muslim to frighten another Muslim.
