الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل الأخلاق الحسنة وما يتعلق بهاIssues of Good Character and Related Matters
بَابُ مَا وَصَفَهُ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم لِاذْهَابِ الْغَضَبِ
Chapter on what the Prophet ﷺ prescribed for removing anger
Hadith 9180
حَدَّثَنَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ قَالَ ثَنَا وَائِلٌ صَنْعَانِيٌّ مُرَادِيٌّ قَالَ كُنَّا جُلُوسًا عِنْدَ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ إِذْ دَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ رَجُلٌ فَكَلَّمَهُ بِكَلَامٍ أَغْضَبَهُ قَالَ فَلَمَّا أَنْ غَضِبَ قَامَ ثُمَّ عَادَ إِلَيْنَا وَقَدْ تَوَضَّأَ فَقَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي عَنْ جَدِّي عَطِيَّةَ وَقَدْ كَانَتْ لَهُ صُحْبَةٌ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((إِنَّ الْغَضَبَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ وَإِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ خُلِقَ مِنَ النَّارِ وَإِنَّمَا تُطْفَأُ النَّارُ بِالْمَاءِ فَإِذَا غَضِبَ أَحَدُكُمْ فَلْيَتَوَضَّأْ))
Narrated by Sayyiduna Atiyyah (may Allah be pleased with him), who had the honor of companionship, that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Verily, anger is from Satan, and Satan was created from fire, and fire is extinguished with water. Therefore, when any of you becomes angry, he should perform ablution.
Hadith 9181
عَنْ مُعَاذٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ اسْتَبَّ رَجُلَانِ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَغَضِبَ أَحَدُهُمَا حَتَّى إِنَّهُ لَيُتَخَيَّلُ إِلَيَّ أَنَّ أَنَفَهُ لَيَتَمَزَّعُ مِنَ الْغَضَبِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنِّي لَأَعْلَمُ كَلِمَةً لَوْ يَقُولُهَا هَذَا الْغَضْبَانُ لَذَهَبَ عَنْهُ الْغَضَبُ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الشَّيْطَانِ الرَّجِيمِ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Mu'adh (may Allah be pleased with him) that in the presence of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), two men began to abuse each other, and one of them became so enraged that it seemed his nose would burst due to anger. At that moment, the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I know a word which, if this angry man were to say it, his anger would go away. That word is: "Allahumma inni a'udhu bika minash-shaytanir-rajim." (O Allah! I seek refuge with You from the accursed devil.)
Hadith 9182
عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ لَنَا إِذَا غَضِبَ أَحَدُكُمْ وَهُوَ قَائِمٌ فَلْيَجْلِسْ فَإِنْ ذَهَبَ عَنْهُ الْغَضَبُ وَإِلَّا فَلْيَضْطَجِعْ
Sayyiduna Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) instructed us: When any one of you becomes angry while standing, he should sit down. If the anger leaves him, then fine; otherwise, he should lie down.
