الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
كتاب السلام والاستئذان وآداب أخرىBook of Greetings, Seeking Permission, and Other Etiquettes
بَابُ النَّهْي عَنْ دُخُولِ مَنْزِلِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ صَاحِبِهِ ، وَعَنِ الدُّخُولِ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ
Chapter on the Prohibition of Entering a House Without the Owner’s Permission and Entering Upon Women Without Their Husbands’ Permission
Hadith 8292
عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ كُنْتُ أَخْدُمُ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَكُنْتُ أَدْخُلُ عَلَيْهِ بِغَيْرِ إِذْنٍ فَجِئْتُ ذَاتَ يَوْمٍ فَدَخَلْتُ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ يَا بُنَيَّ إِنَّهُ قَدْ حَدَثَ أَمْرٌ فَلَا تَدْخُلْ عَلَيَّ إِلَّا بِإِذْنٍ
Sayyiduna Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that I was assigned to the service of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), so I used to come to you without permission. One day, I entered (as per routine), so the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Dear son! A new command has been enforced, so do not come to me without permission.
Hadith 8293
عَنْ عُبَادَةَ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ الدَّارُ حَرَمٌ فَمَنْ دَخَلَ عَلَيْكَ حَرَمَكَ فَاقْتُلْهُ
Sayyiduna Ubadah bin Samit (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Your house is a sanctuary for you, so if a person enters your sanctuary (without permission), kill him.
Hadith 8294
عَنْ مَوْلًى لِعَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ عَمْرَو بْنَ الْعَاصِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَرْسَلَهُ إِلَى عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ يَسْتَأْذِنُهُ عَلَى امْرَأَتِهِ أَسْمَاءَ بِنْتِ عُمَيْسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا فَأَذِنَ لَهُ فَتَكَلَّمَا فِي حَاجَةٍ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ الْمَوْلَى سَأَلَهُ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ عَمْرٌو نَهَانَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَنْ نَسْتَأْذِنَ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ أَزْوَاجِهِنَّ
Sayyiduna Amr bin Aas (may Allah be pleased with him) sent his servant to Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) so that he could seek permission from him for Amr to visit his wife, Sayyida Asma bint Umais (may Allah be pleased with her). He granted permission, and Amr spoke as needed. When he came out, the servant asked the reason why Amr did not enter upon Sayyida Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) without permission. Sayyiduna Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) said that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade speaking to someone’s wife without first seeking permission from her husband.
Hadith 8295
عَنْ أَبِي صَالِحٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَمْرُو بْنُ الْعَاصِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَلَى فَاطِمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا فَأَذِنَتْ لَهُ قَالَ ثَمَّ عَلِيٌّ قَالُوا لَا قَالَ فَرَجَعَ ثُمَّ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَلَيْهَا مَرَّةً أُخْرَى فَقَالَ ثَمَّ عَلِيٌّ قَالُوا نَعَمْ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا فَقَالَ لَهُ عَلِيٌّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ مَا مَنَعَكَ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ حِينَ لَمْ تَجِدْنِي هَاهُنَا قَالَ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَهَانَا أَنْ نَدْخُلَ عَلَى الْمُغِيبَاتِ
Abu Salih narrates that Sayyiduna Amr bin Aas (may Allah be pleased with him) sought permission to meet Sayyidah Fatimah (may Allah be pleased with her). She granted permission, but Sayyiduna Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: "Is Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) also here?" The people replied: "No, he is not." So Sayyiduna Amr (may Allah be pleased with him) went back. Then he again sought permission and asked: "Is Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) present?" Someone said: "Yes, he is." Then he came, and Sayyiduna Ali (may Allah be pleased with him) asked him: "Why did you hesitate when I was not present?" He replied: "The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade visiting those women whose husbands are not at home."
