الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاحExplanation of Impediments to Marriage
بَابُ النَّهْي عَنْهُ وَكَرَاهِيَهِ
Chapter: Prohibition and Dislike of It
Hadith 7077
عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ نَهَى عَنِ الْعَزْلِ عَنِ الْحُرَّةِ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهَا
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Umar bin Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) forbade practicing coitus interruptus with a free woman, unless she gives permission.
Hadith 7078
عَنْ جُدَامَةَ بِنْتِ وَهْبٍ الْأَسَدِيَّةِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا وَكَانَتْ مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرَاتِ الْأُوَلِ قَالَتْ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَسُئِلَ عَنِ الْعَزْلِ فَقَالَ هُوَ الْوَأْدُ الْخَفِيُّ
Narrated by Sayyidah Judamah bint Wahb Asadiyyah, may Allah be pleased with her, who was among the first emigrant women, that when the Noble Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, was asked about coitus interruptus, he, peace and blessings be upon him, said: "It is the secret burying alive."
Hadith 7079
عَنِ ابْنِ مُحَيْرِيزٍ الشَّامِيِّ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ أَبَا صِرْمَةَ الْمَازِنِيَّ وَأَبَا سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيَّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا يَقُولَانِ أَصَبْنَا سَبَايَا فِي غَزْوَةِ بَنِي الْمُصْطَلِقِ وَهِيَ الْغَزْوَةُ الَّتِي أَصَابَ فِيهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ جُوَيْرِيَةَ وَكَانَ مِنَّا مَنْ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَتَّخِذَ أَهْلًا وَمِنَّا مَنْ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَسْتَمْتِعَ وَيَبِيعَ فَتَرَاجَعْنَا فِي الْعَزْلِ فَذَكَرْنَا ذَلِكَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ مَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ لَا تَعْزِلُوا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ قَدَّرَ مَا هُوَ خَالِقٌ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Surmah Mazni and Sayyiduna Abu Saeed Khudri, may Allah be pleased with them both, they say: We obtained captives in the Battle of Banu Mustaliq, this is the same battle in which the Noble Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, obtained Sayyida Juwayriya, may Allah be pleased with her. Some among us wanted to take wives, and some intended to have intercourse with the slave women and then sell them, so we discussed the matter of withdrawal (azl) and mentioned this to the Noble Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. He, peace and blessings be upon him, said: If you do not practice withdrawal, there is no harm upon you, because Allah Almighty has already determined whatever He is going to create until the Day of Judgment.
Hadith 7080
عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ ذُكِرَ ذَلِكَ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ وَمَا ذَاكُمْ قَالُوا الرَّجُلُ تَكُونُ الْمَرْأَةُ تُرْضِعُ فَيُصِيبُ مِنْهَا وَيَكْرَهُ أَنْ تَحْمِلَ مِنْهُ وَالرَّجُلُ تَكُونُ لَهُ الْجَارِيَةُ فَيُصِيبُ مِنْهَا وَيَكْرَهُ أَنْ تَحْمِلَ مِنْهُ فَقَالَ فَلَا عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تَفْعَلُوا ذَاكُمْ فَإِنَّمَا هُوَ الْقَدَرُ قَالَ ابْنُ عَوْنٍ فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهِ الْحَسَنَ فَقَالَ فَلَا عَلَيْكُمْ لَكَأَنَّ هَذَا زِجْرٌ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) that the mention of 'azl (coitus interruptus) was made before the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: What is that? The people said: A man has a wife, she is nursing a child, so he does not like her to become pregnant; similarly, a man has a slave woman, he has intercourse with her but does not like her to become pregnant, so they wish to practice 'azl. He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: If you do this, there is no harm upon you; this is a matter of destiny. Ibn 'Awn says: I narrated this hadith to Sayyiduna Hasan, so he said: The purpose of "fa la 'alaykum" is to rebuke for practicing 'azl.
Hadith 7081
وَعَنْهُ أَيْضًا قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي الْعَزْلِ أَنْتَ تَخْلُقُهُ أَنْتَ تَرْزُقُهُ أَقِرَّهُ قَرَارَهُ فَإِنَّمَا ذَلِكَ الْقَدَرُ
Narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said regarding 'azl (withdrawal): "Do you create it? Do you provide it with sustenance? Let it remain in its place (i.e., do not practice withdrawal), for all these matters are related to divine decree and destiny."
