الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاحExplanation of Impediments to Marriage
باب اعلانِ النِّكَاحِ وَاللَّهْوِ فِيهِ وَالضَّرْبِ بِالدُّتِ
Chapter: Announcing the Marriage, Entertainment in It, and Beating the Duff
Hadith 7058
عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ أَعْلِنُوا النِّكَاحَ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abdullah bin Zubair (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Announce the marriage.
Hadith 7059
عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ يَحْيَى الْمَازِنِيِّ عَنْ جَدِّهِ أَبِي حَسَنٍ الْمَازِنِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَكْرَهُ نِكَاحَ السِّرِّ حَتَّى يُضْرَبَ بِدُفٍّ وَيُقَالَ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيُّونَا نُحَيِّيكُمْ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu al-Hasan Mazni (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) disliked secret marriages. He wished that the duff be played and it be announced: "We have come to you, we have come to you, you greet us with peace, we greet you with peace."
Hadith 7060
عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ يَحْيَى الْمَازِنِيِّ عَنْ جَدِّهِ أَبِي حَسَنٍ الْمَازِنِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَكْرَهُ نِكَاحَ السِّرِّ حَتَّى يُضْرَبَ بِدُفٍّ وَيُقَالَ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيُّونَا نُحَيِّيكُمْ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu al-Hasan Mazni (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him and his family) disliked secret marriages. He wished that the duff be played and it be announced: "We have come to you, we have come to you, you greet us with peace, we greet you with peace."
Hadith 7061
عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَيْرٍ أَوْ عُمَيْرَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي زَوْجُ ابْنَةِ أَبِي لَهَبٍ قَالَ دَخَلَ عَلَيْنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ تَزَوَّجْتُ ابْنَةَ أَبِي لَهَبٍ فَقَالَ هَلْ مِنْ لَهْوٍ
Abdullah bin Umair or Umairah says: The son-in-law of Abu Lahab narrated to me, saying: When I married the daughter of Abu Lahab, the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, came to us and said: Have you not arranged for a little bit of entertainment?
Hadith 7062
عَنْ عَائِشَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ كَانَ فِي حِجْرِي جَارِيَةٌ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ فَزَوَّجْتُهَا قَالَتْ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَوْمَ عُرْسِهَا فَلَمْ يَسْمَعْ لَعِبًا فَقَالَ يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ هَذَا الْحَيَّ مِنَ الْأَنْصَارِ يُحِبُّونَ كَذَا وَكَذَا
Narrated by Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her), she says: There was a girl from the Ansar under my care, I married her off, and on that occasion, the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me. When the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not hear any entertainment, he said: O Aisha! This tribe of the Ansar is very fond of entertainment and such activities.
Hadith 7063
عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ لِعَائِشَةَ أَهْدَيْتُمُ الْجَارِيَةَ إِلَى بَيْتِهَا قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَهَلَّا بَعَثْتُمْ مَعَهَا مَنْ يُغَنِّيهِمْ يَقُولُ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ أَتَيْنَاكُمْ فَحَيُّونَا نُحَيِّيكُمْ فَإِنَّ الْأَنْصَارَ قَوْمٌ فِيهِمْ غَزَلٌ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir bin Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with them both) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Sayyidah Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her): "Have you sent the girl off to her home?" She said: "Yes." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Why did you not send with her people who would sing and say like this: 'We have come to you, we have come to you, so greet us with peace, we greet you with peace,' for the Ansar are people who like such poetry."
Hadith 7064
عَنْ أَبِي بَلْجٍ قَالَ قُلْتُ لِمُحَمَّدِ بْنِ حَاطِبٍ الْجُمَحِيِّ إِنِّي قَدْ تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَتَيْنِ لَمْ يُضْرَبْ عَلَيَّ بِدُفٍّ قَالَ بِئْسَمَا صَنَعْتَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَّ فَصْلَ مَا بَيْنَ الْحَلَالِ وَالْحَرَامِ الصَّوْتُ يَعْنِي الضَّرْبَ بِالدُّفِّ وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ فَصْلُ مَا بَيْنَ الْحَلَالِ وَالْحَرَامِ الدُّفُّ وَالصَّوْتُ فِي النِّكَاحِ
Abu Balj says: I said to Muhammad bin Hatib Jumahi: I have married two women and no duff was played for me. He said: You have done wrong. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: The distinction between halal and haram is the sound, that is, playing the duff. In another narration it is: The thing that distinguishes between halal and haram is playing the duff and making sound.
Hadith 7065
عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي الرُّبَيِّعُ بِنْتُ مُعَوِّذِ بْنِ عَفْرَاءَ بْنِ مُعَوِّذٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ دَخَلَ عَلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَوْمَ عُرْسِي فَقَعَدَ فِي مَوْضِعِ فِرَاشِي هَذَا وَعِنْدِي جَارِيَتَانِ تَضْرِبَانِ بِالدُّفِّ وَتَنْدُبَانِ آبَائِي الَّذِينَ قُتِلُوا يَوْمَ بَدْرٍ فَقَالَتَا فِيمَا تَقُولَانِ وَفِينَا نَبِيٌّ يَعْلَمُ مَا يَكُونُ فِي الْيَوْمِ وَفِي غَدٍ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمَّا هَذَا فَلَا تَقُولَا
It is narrated from Sayyida Rabi’ bint Mu’awwidh (may Allah be pleased with her), she says: The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to me on the occasion of my marriage and sat here on my bed. I had two young girls with me who were playing the daff and describing the qualities of my forefathers who were martyred at Badr. In between, they also said: “And among us is a Prophet who knows what will happen tomorrow.” The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Do not say this.
