الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان موانع النكاحExplanation of Impediments to Marriage
بَابُ مَا يُصْنَعُ إِذَا اجْتَمَعَ الدَّاعِيَانِ وَحُكْمِ الْإِجَابِةِ فِي الْيَوْمِ الثَّانِي وَالثَّالِثِ
Chapter: What to Do If Two Hosts Invite Together and the Ruling on Responding on the Second and Third Day
Hadith 7047
عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ اجْتَمَعَ الدَّاعِيَانِ فَأَجِبْ أَقْرَبَهُمَا بَابًا فَإِنَّ أَقْرَبَهُمَا بَابًا أَقْرَبَهُمَا جِوَارًا فَإِذَا سَبَقَ أَحَدُهُمَا فَأَجِبِ الَّذِي سَبَقَ
Humaid bin Abdur Rahman narrates from a companion of the Messenger of Allah that the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: When two people invite you at the same time, then accept the invitation of the one whose door is closer, because the one whose door is closer is a nearer neighbor. And if one of them invites you first, then accept the invitation of the one who invited you first.
Hadith 7048
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ ثَنَا هَمَّامٌ ثَنَا قَتَادَةُ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُثْمَانَ الثَّقَفِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ رَجُلٍ أَعْوَرَ مِنْ ثَقِيفٍ قَالَ قَتَادَةُ وَكَانَ يُقَالُ لَهُ مَعْرُوفٌ إِنْ لَمْ يَكُنْ اسْمُهُ زُهَيْرَ بْنَ عُثْمَانَ فَلَا أَدْرِي مَا اسْمُهُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ وَلِيمَةُ أَوَّلِ يَوْمٍ حَقٌّ وَالثَّانِي مَعْرُوفٌ وَالْيَوْمِ الثَّالِثِ سُمْعَةٌ وَرِيَاءٌ
There was a one-eyed man from Banu Thaqif. Imam Qatadah says: He is called Ma'ruf, and if his name was not Zuhair bin Uthman, then I do not know what his name was. In any case, it is narrated from this man that the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: The walimah (wedding feast) of the first day is a right, the second day is a customary practice, and the walimah of the third day is for fame and show.
