الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل النكاحIssues of Marriage
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي تَزْوِيجِ الْآبِ بِنتَهُ الشَّيْبَ أَوِ الْبِكْرَ الْبَالِغَ بِغَيْرِ رَضَاهَا
Chapter: What Has Been Reported Regarding a Father Marrying Off His Adult Virgin or Previously Married Daughter Without Her Consent
Hadith 6898
عَنْ حَجَّاجِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ بْنِ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُنْذِرِ الْأَنْصَارِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ جَدَّتَهُ أُمَّ السَّائِبِ خُنَاسَ بِنْتَ خِذَامِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ قَبْلَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ تَأَيَّمَتْ مِنْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا أَبُوهَا خِذَامُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ رَجُلًا مِنْ بَنِي عَمْرِو بْنِ عَوْفِ بْنِ الْخَزْرَجِ فَأَبَتْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَحُطَّ إِلَى أَبِي لُبَابَةَ وَأَبَى أَبُوهَا إِلَّا أَنْ يَلْزِمَهَا الْعَوْفِيَّ حَتَّى ارْتَفَعَ أَمْرُهَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ هِيَ أَوْلَى بِأَمْرِهَا فَأَلْحِقْهَا بِهَوَاهَا قَالَ فَانْتُزِعَتْ مِنَ الْعَوْفِيِّ وَتَزَوَّجَتْ أَبَا لُبَابَةَ فَوَلَدَتْ لَهُ أَبَا السَّائِبِ بْنَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ
It is narrated from Hajjaj bin Saib that his grandmother (maternal or paternal), Umm Saib Khunas bint Khidam, was the wife of another man before coming under the marriage of Abu Lubabah. That man died and she became a widow. Then her father Khidam married her to a man from Banu Amr bin Awf bin Khazraj, but she refused to go to him and insisted that she wanted to marry Abu Lubabah. However, her father was adamant that she would only go to the house of a man from the tribe of Awf. Eventually, this matter was brought before the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: This woman has more right over her own matter, so marry her according to her wish. Thus, she was separated from the man of Awf and married Abu Lubabah, from whom Saib bin Abi Lubabah was born.
Hadith 6899
عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ وَمُجَمِّعٍ ابْنَيْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ جَارِيَةَ عَنْ خَنْسَاءَ بِنْتِ خِذَامٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ أَبَاهَا زَوَّجَهَا وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ وَكَانَتْ ثَيِّبًا فَرَدَّ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ نِكَاحَهُ
Narrated from Sayyidah Khansa bint Khidam (may Allah be pleased with her) that her father married her to someone whom she disliked, while she had previously been widowed. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) annulled her marriage.
Hadith 6900
عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا أَنَّ خِذَامًا أَبَا وَدِيعَةَ أَنْكَحَ ابْنَتَهُ رَجُلًا فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَاشْتَكَتْ إِلَيْهِ أَنَّهَا أُنْكِحَتْ وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ فَانْتَزَعَهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْ زَوْجِهَا وَقَالَ لَا تُكْرِهُوهُنَّ قَالَ فَنَكَحَتْ بَعْدَ ذَلِكَ أَبَا لُبَابَةَ الْأَنْصَارِيَّ وَكَانَتْ ثَيِّبًا
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that Abu Wadi’ah Khidham married his daughter to a man, but the girl came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and complained that her marriage had been arranged while she disliked it. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) separated her from that husband and said: Do not force women (into marriage). Then she married Abu Lubabah Ansari, while that woman had previously been a widow.
Hadith 6901
وَعَنْهُ أَيْضًا أَنَّ جَارِيَةً بِكْرًا أَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَذَكَرَتْ أَنَّ أَبَاهَا زَوَّجَهَا وَهِيَ كَارِهَةٌ فَخَيَّرَهَا النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ.
It is also narrated from Sayyiduna Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with them both) that a virgin girl came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said that her father had married her to a man whom she disliked. So the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) gave her the choice to stay (in the marriage) or not.
