Hadith 9987

عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ قَالَ قَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا لِابْنِ السَّائِبِ قَاصِّ أَهْلِ الْمَدِينَةِ ثَلَاثَةٌ لَتُتَابِعَنِّي عَلَيْهِنَّ أَوْ لَأُنَاجِزَنَّكَ فَقَالَ مَا هُنَّ بَلْ أَنَا أُتَابِعُكِ يَا أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ قَالَتِ اجْتَنِبِ السَّجْعَ مِنَ الدُّعَاءِ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَصْحَابَهُ كَانُوا لَا يَفْعَلُونَ ذَلِكَ وَقَالَ إِسْمَاعِيلُ مَرَّةً فَقَالَتْ إِنِّي عَهِدْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَأَصْحَابَهُ وَهُمْ لَا يَفْعَلُونَ ذَلِكَ وَقُصَّ عَلَى النَّاسِ فِي كُلِّ جُمُعَةٍ مَرَّةً فَإِنْ أَبَيْتَ فَثِنْتَيْنِ فَإِنْ أَبَيْتَ فَثَلَاثًا فَلَا تُمِلَّ النَّاسَ هَذَا الْكِتَابَ وَلَا أُلْفِيَنَّكَ تَأْتِي الْقَوْمَ وَهُمْ فِي حَدِيثٍ مِنْ حَدِيثِهِمْ فَتَقْطَعُ عَلَيْهِمْ حَدِيثَهُمْ وَلَكِنِ اتْرُكْهُمْ فَإِذَا جَرَّؤُوكَ عَلَيْهِ وَأَمَرُوكَ بِهِ فَحَدِّثْهُمْ
Imam Shabi says: Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) said to the preacher of Madinah, Ibn Saib: Either you will agree with me on three things, or I will oppose you. He said: What are those things, O Mother of the Believers! I will agree with you. Sayyida said: (1) Avoid rhymed speech in supplication, because the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and his companions did not do so, (2) Preach to the people once a week, if you refuse then do it twice, if you do not accept even this then do it three times, do not make people weary of this book, and (3) I should not find you in a state where you come to people while they are talking among themselves and you come and interrupt their conversation, you should leave them until if they themselves encourage you and order you to speak, then you may talk to them.
Hadith Reference الفتح الربانی / كتاب آفات اللسان / 9987
Hadith Grading محدثین: صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «صحيح لغيره، أخرجه ابن ابي شيبة: 10/ 199، وابن حبان: 978 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 25820 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 26340»