Hadith 9935

عَنْ أَبِي يُونُسَ مَوْلَى عَائِشَةَ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ اسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ بِئْسَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ هَشَّ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَانْبَسَطَ إِلَيْهِ ثُمَّ خَرَجَ فَاسْتَأْذَنَ رَجُلٌ آخَرُ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ نِعْمَ ابْنُ الْعَشِيرَةِ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ لَمْ يَنْبَسِطْ إِلَيْهِ كَمَا انْبَسَطَ إِلَى الْآخَرِ وَلَمْ يَهَشَّ لَهُ كَمَا هَشَّ فَلَمَّا خَرَجَ قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ اسْتَأْذَنَ فُلَانٌ فَقُلْتَ لَهُ مَا قُلْتَ ثُمَّ هَشَشْتَ لَهُ وَانْبَسَطْتَ إِلَيْهِ وَقُلْتَ لِفُلَانٍ مَا قُلْتَ وَلَمْ أَرَكَ صَنَعْتَ بِهِ مَا صَنَعْتَ لِلْآخَرِ فَقَالَ يَا عَائِشَةُ إِنَّ مِنْ شِرَارِ النَّاسِ مَنِ الُّقِيَ لِفُحْشِهِ
It is narrated from Sayyida Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) that a man sought permission to come to the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him). The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said about him: "He is a bad man of his family." Then, when he came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) treated him cheerfully and informally. After that man left, another man came. About him, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "He is the best man of his family." Then, when he came to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him), the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) did not treat him as informally as he had treated the first one, nor was he as cheerful with him. When this man also left, I (Aisha) said: "O Messenger of Allah! When so-and-so sought permission from you, you declared him to be a bad man of his family, but then you treated him cheerfully and informally. And about so-and-so, you commented well, but did not treat him as you did the first one?" The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "O Aisha! The worst people are those from whose evil others are cautious."
Hadith Reference الفتح الربانی / كتاب آفات اللسان / 9935
Hadith Grading محدثین: صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «حديث صحيح ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 25254 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 25768»