It is narrated from Sayyiduna Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: In my garden, there is a date palm tree belonging to such-and-such person, and indeed, he has caused me distress, and the place of his tree has become a source of hardship for me. The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a message to that person, asking him to sell his date palm tree, which is in the other man's garden, to him. But he said: No. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Then gift it to me. He said: No. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Then sell it to me in exchange for a date palm tree in Paradise. He said: No. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I have not seen anyone more miserly than you, except the one who is miserly in greeting (saying Salam).
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / القسم الخامس: مسائل الترهيب من الكبائر وسائر المعاصي / 9838
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«حسن لغيره، دون قوله: ما رايت الذي بالسلام۔ فقد تفرد به عبد الله بن محمد بن عقيل وھو ضعيفيعتبر به، أخرجه الحاكم: 2/ 20، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 14517 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 14571»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … The demand of eagerness was indeed that this offer of the Noble Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) should have been accepted; nevertheless, temperaments differ, and the owner also has the right of choice.