الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
القسم الخامس: مسائل الترهيب من الكبائر وسائر المعاصيFifth Section: Issues Warning Against Major Sins and All Other Sins
بَابُ مَا جَاءَ فِي التَّرْهِيبِ مِنَ التَّفَاخُرِ بِالْآبَاءِ فِي نَّسْبٍ وَغَيْرِ ذَلِكَChapter on what has been narrated regarding warning against boasting about ancestors and lineage, and other such things
Hadith 9737
اُردوEn
عَنْ عُتَيِّ بْنِ ضَمْرَةَ عَنْ أُبَيِّ بْنِ كَعْبٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّ رَجُلًا اعْتَزَى بِعَزَاءِ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ فَأَعَضَّهُ وَلَمْ يَكْنِهِ فَنَظَرَ الْقَوْمُ إِلَيْهِ فَقَالَ لِلْقَوْمِ إِنِّي قَدْ أَرَى الَّذِي فِي أَنْفُسِكُمْ إِنِّي لَمْ أَسْتَطِعْ إِلَّا أَنْ أَقُولَ هَذَا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَمَرَنَا إِذَا سَمِعْتُمْ مَنْ يَعْتَزِي بِعَزَاءِ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ فَأَعِضُّوهُ وَلَا تَكْنُوا
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Ubayy bin Ka'b (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man was attributed with an association from the time of ignorance (Jahiliyyah). Sayyiduna Ubayy (may Allah be pleased with him) told him to bite his father's private part, and he did not speak figuratively. The people looked at him with astonishment because of this insult, but he said: I know what you are feeling within yourselves, while I only have the ability to say this much, because the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) commanded us, saying: When you see someone being attributed to the associations of Jahiliyyah, then say to him without any hint or innuendo: Bite your father's private part.
