Hazrat Abdullah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man said: O Messenger of Allah! When I do a good deed and when I do a bad deed, how will I know that I have done good or bad? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: When you hear your neighbors saying that you have done good, then you have done good; and when you hear them saying that you have done bad, then you have done bad.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / القسم الخامس: مسائل الترهيب من الكبائر وسائر المعاصي / 9704
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده صحيح علي شرط الشيخين، أخرجه ابن ماجه: 4223 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 3808 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 3808»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … If a neighbor is distressed due to the misconduct of another neighbor, then the central role in this is played by the oppressor’s tongue. In this hadith, the well-being and goodness of a neighbor has been declared the criterion of success and prosperity. This is because the foundation of faith is the rectitude of the heart, the rectitude of the heart depends on the correction of the tongue, and the good or evil of the tongue is connected to good conduct or misconduct with the neighbor.