Syedna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that a man complained to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) about the hardness of his heart. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to him: If you want to soften your heart, then feed the poor and stroke the head of the orphan.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / كتاب جامع فى الترغيب: الآداب والمواعظ والحكم وجوامع الكلم، يبدأ بالثلاثيات / 9556
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«صحيح، قاله الالباني ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 7576 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 7566»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … This hadith demands from us that we become soft-hearted, compassionate, and well-wishing towards others. However, it is possible that a person is naturally hard-hearted. In this blessed hadith, a remedy for hardness of heart has been mentioned: that one should arrange food and drink for those deprived of worldly means, and console those who are deprived of worldly support.