الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل الأخلاق الحسنة وما يتعلق بهاIssues of Good Character and Related Matters
بَابُ التَّرْغِيْبِ فِي عَظْمِ الْغَيْظِ وَعَدْمِ الْغَضَبِChapter on encouragement to suppress anger and avoid rage
Hadith 9174
اُردوEn
عَنِ ابْنِ حَصْبَةَ أَوْ أَبِي حَصْبَةَ عَنْ رَجُلٍ شَهِدَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَخْطُبُ فَقَالَ ((تَدْرُونَ مَا الصُّرَعَةُ)) قَالَ قَالُوا الْصَّرِيعُ قَالَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ ((الصُّرَعَةُ كُلُّ الصُّرَعَةِ الصُّرَعَةُ كُلُّ الصُّرَعَةِ الرَّجُلُ يَغْضَبُ فَيَشْتَدُّ غَضَبُهُ وَيَحْمَرُّ وَجْهُهُ وَيَقْشَعِرُّ شَعْرُهُ فَيَصْرَعُ غَضَبَهُ وَإِنَّمَا تُطْفَأُ النَّارُ بِالْمَاءِ))
Ibn Hisbah or Abu Hisbah narrates from a companion who was present at the time of the address of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him. He, peace and blessings be upon him, said: Do you know who the real wrestler is? They said: The one who throws others down. He, peace and blessings be upon him, said: The real wrestler, the greatest wrestler, is the person who, when anger comes upon him and his anger becomes intense, his face turns red and his hair stands on end, but he controls his anger. And indeed, fire is extinguished only with water.
