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الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
مسائل البر وصلة الرحمIssues of Righteousness and Maintaining Family Ties
بَابُ في بر الأولادِ وَالأقَارِبِ الْأَقْرَبِ فَالْاقْرَبِ اب مَا جَاءَ فِي نَمْرَةِ الأَوْلَادِ وَالتَّرْغِيْبِ فِي ادِيهِمْ وَالْعَطْفِ عَلَيْهِمْChapter on dutifulness to children and close relatives, what has been narrated regarding the virtue of children, and encouragement towards kindness to them and compassion for them
Hadith 9035
اُردوEn
۔ وَعَنْہُ اَیْضًا، قَالَ: دَخَلَ عُیَیْنَۃُ بْنُ حِصْنٍ عَلٰی رَسُوْلِ اللّٰہِ صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم فَرَآہُ یُقَبِّلُ حَسَنًا اَوْ حُسَیْنًا، فَقَالَ لَہُ: لا تُقَبِّلْہُ یَارَسُوْلَ اللّٰہِ! لَقَدْ وُلِدَ لِیْ عَشَرَۃٌ مَا قَبَّلْتُ اَحَدًا مِنْھُمْ، فَقَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللّٰہِ صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم : ((اِنَّ مَنْ لایَرْحَمُ لایُرْحَمُ۔))
Sayyiduna Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him) also narrates that Sayyiduna ‘Uyainah bin Hisn (may Allah be pleased with him) came to the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) and saw that he (peace and blessings be upon him) was kissing Sayyiduna Hasan or Sayyiduna Husayn (may Allah be pleased with them). He said: O Messenger of Allah! Do not kiss them; I have ten children and I have never kissed any of them. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy.
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … A servant being compassionate is a sign that Allah Ta’ala will also have mercy upon him. If a person is of a very harsh temperament, then he should, even if with some effort, show gentleness in matters concerning his children.
