It is narrated from Sayyiduna Bara’ bin Azib (may Allah be pleased with him) that a Bedouin came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: O Messenger of Allah! Teach me an action that will admit me into Paradise? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Although you have asked a brief question, the matter you have raised is great. The answer is that you should free a complete slave or contribute a share in the freeing of a slave. I said: Are ‘Itqun-Nasamah and Fakkur-Raqabah not the same thing? The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: No, ‘Itqun-Nasamah means that you yourself free a complete slave, and Fakkur-Raqabah means that you contribute a share in the freeing of a slave; giving in charity an animal that gives much milk, showing kindness to an oppressive relative and doing good to him. So if you do not have the strength for this, then feed the hungry, give water to the thirsty, enjoin good and forbid evil. And if you do not have the strength for even this, then restrain your tongue, except for matters of goodness.
Hadith Referenceالفتح الربانی / مسائل الترغيب فى الأعمال الصالحة / 8959
Hadith Gradingمحدثین:صحیح
Hadith Takhrij«اسناده صحيح، أخرجه الدارقطني: 2/ 135، والطيالسي: 739، واليبھقي: 10/ 272، وابن حبان: 374 ، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 18647 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 18850»
Brief Explanation
Benefits: … It is understood from this that the minimum level of goodness is that a person does not misuse his tongue, because if a person does not have the ability to perform any (good) deed, then at least it is within his capacity to keep his tongue under control. Yes, if there is something good to say, then he should say it.
But the situation is such that people are able to perform great deeds, yet they are unable to control their tongues.