الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
كتاب السلام والاستئذان وآداب أخرىBook of Greetings, Seeking Permission, and Other Etiquettes
بَاب مَا جَاءَ فِي الْمُصَافَحَةِ وَالْالْتِرَامِChapter on What Has Been Reported Regarding Handshaking and Embracing
Hadith 8306
اُردوEn
عَنْ خَالِدِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ حَدَّثَنِي أَيُّوبُ بْنُ بُشَيْرٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ عَنْ فُلَانٍ الْعَنَزِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ وَلَمْ يَقُلِ الْغُبَرِيَّ وَفِي لَفْظٍ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ عَنَزَةَ أَنَّهُ أَقْبَلَ مَعَ أَبِي ذَرٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ فَلَمَّا رَجَعَ تَقَطَّعَ النَّاسُ عَنْهُ فَقُلْتُ يَا أَبَا ذَرٍّ إِنِّي سَائِلُكَ عَنْ بَعْضِ أَمْرِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ إِنْ كَانَ سِرًّا مِنْ سِرِّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَمْ أُحَدِّثْكَ قُلْتُ لَيْسَ بِسِرٍّ وَلَكِنْ كَانَ إِذَا لَقِيَ الرَّجُلَ يَأْخُذُ بِيَدِهِ يُصَافِحُهُ قَالَ عَلَى الْخَبِيرِ سَقَطْتَ لَمْ يَلْقَنِي قَطُّ إِلَّا أَخَذَ بِيَدِي وَفِي رِوَايَةٍ مَا لَقِيتُهُ قَطُّ إِلَّا صَافَحَنِي غَيْرَ مَرَّةٍ وَاحِدَةٍ وَكَانَتْ تِلْكَ آخِرَهُنَّ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ فَأَتَيْتُهُ زَادَ فِي رِوَايَةٍ وَهُوَ عَلَى سَرِيرٍ لَهُ فِي مَرَضِهِ الَّذِي تُوُفِّيَ فِيهِ فَوَجَدْتُهُ مُضْطَجِعًا فَأَكْبَبْتُ عَلَيْهِ فَرَفَعَ يَدَهُ فَالْتَزَمَنِي صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ زَادَ فِي رِوَايَةٍ فَكَانَتْ أَجْوَدَ وَأَجْوَدَ
A man from the Banu Anz tribe narrates: I came with Sayyiduna Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him). When he returned, the people separated from him, and I said: O Abu Dharr! I want to ask you about some matters of the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him). He said: But if it is a secret of the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him), I will not tell you. I said: It is not a secret matter. The thing is, when a man meets another man, he takes his hand and shakes hands with him. Is this correct? He said: You have indeed asked a well-informed person. Whenever the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) met me, he always took my hand and shook hands with me. However, there was one time when he did not shake hands; this happened in the last moments of his life. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sent a message to me while he was on his bed; this was at the time when he was suffering from his final illness. I found him lying down, and when I leaned over him, he raised his blessed hand and embraced me. This manner was so much better and more excellent than a handshake.
