الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
كتاب السلام والاستئذان وآداب أخرىBook of Greetings, Seeking Permission, and Other Etiquettes
باب الاستقدان ثلاث مِرَارٍ فَإِنْ لَمْ يُؤْذَنَ لَهُ فَلْيَرْجِعْChapter on Seeking Permission Three Times, and If Not Granted, Then One Should Leave
Hadith 8300
اُردوEn
عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ كُنْتُ فِي حَلْقَةٍ مِنْ حَلَقِ الْأَنْصَارِ فَجَاءَنَا أَبُو مُوسَى رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ كَأَنَّهُ مَذْعُورٌ فَقَالَ إِنَّ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَمَرَنِي أَنْ آتِيَهُ فَأَتَيْتُهُ فَاسْتَأْذَنْتُ ثَلَاثًا فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لِي فَرَجَعْتُ وَقَدْ قَالَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنِ اسْتَأْذَنَ ثَلَاثًا فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَلْيَرْجِعْ فَقَالَ لَتَجِيئَنَّ بِبَيِّنَةٍ عَلَى الَّذِي تَقُولُ وَإِلَّا أَوْجَعْتُكَ قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ فَأَتَانَا أَبُو مُوسَى مَذْعُورًا أَوْ قَالَ فَزِعًا فَقَالَ أَسْتَشْهِدُكُمْ فَقَالَ أُبَيُّ بْنُ كَعْبٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ لَا يَقُومُ مَعَكَ إِلَّا أَصْغَرُ الْقَوْمِ قَالَ أَبُو سَعِيدٍ وَكُنْتُ أَصْغَرَهُمْ فَقُمْتُ مَعَهُ وَشَهِدْتُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَنِ اسْتَأْذَنَ ثَلَاثًا فَلَمْ يُؤْذَنْ لَهُ فَلْيَرْجِعْ
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him), he says: I was sitting in a gathering of the Ansar when Sayyiduna Abu Musa Ash'ari (may Allah be pleased with him) came to us, and he seemed somewhat frightened. In fact, Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) had summoned him. So I went to him and sought permission three times, but when I was not granted permission, I turned back, because the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever seeks permission three times from someone and is not granted permission, then he should return. When I informed Sayyiduna Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) of this hadith, he said: Bring proof of this, otherwise I will punish you. So I came to seek testimony. Sayyiduna Ubayy bin Ka'b (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The youngest among us should stand with you for this. Sayyiduna Abu Sa'id (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I was the youngest, so I stood up and testified that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Whoever seeks permission three times and is not granted permission, then he should return.
