Hadith 7995

عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ حَدَّثَتْنِي أَسْمَاءُ بِنْتُ يَزِيدَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَمَعَ نِسَاءَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ لِلْبَيْعَةِ فَقَالَتْ لَهُ أَسْمَاءُ أَلَا تَحْسُرُ لَنَا عَنْ يَدِكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنِّي لَسْتُ أُصَافِحُ النِّسَاءَ وَلَكِنْ آخُذُ عَلَيْهِنَّ وَفِي النِّسَاءِ خَالَةٌ لَهَا عَلَيْهَا قُلْبَانِ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ وَخَوَاتِيمُ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَا هَذِهِ هَلْ يَسُرُّكِ أَنْ يُحَلِّيَكِ اللَّهُ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ مِنْ جَمْرِ جَهَنَّمَ سِوَارَيْنِ وَخَوَاتِيمَ فَقَالَتْ أَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ قَالَتْ قُلْتُ يَا خَالَتِي اطْرُحِي مَا عَلَيْكِ فَطَرَحَتْهُ فَحَدَّثَتْنِي أَسْمَاءُ وَاللَّهِ يَا بُنَيَّ لَقَدْ طَرَحَتْهُ فَمَا أَدْرِي مَنْ لَقَطَهُ مِنْ مَكَانِهِ وَلَا الْتَفَتَ مِنَّا أَحَدٌ إِلَيْهِ قَالَتْ أَسْمَاءُ فَقُلْتُ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ إِنَّ إِحْدَاهُنَّ تَصْلَفُ عِنْدَ زَوْجِهَا إِذَا لَمْ تُمَلَّحْ لَهُ أَوْ تَتَحَلَّى لَهُ قَالَ نَبِيُّ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَا عَلَى إِحْدَاكُنَّ أَنْ تَتَّخِذَ قُرْطَيْنِ مِنْ فِضَّةٍ وَتَتَّخِذَ لَهَا جُمَانَتَيْنِ مِنْ فِضَّةٍ فَتُدْرِجَهُ بَيْنَ أَنَامِلِهَا بِشَيْءٍ مِنْ زَعْفَرَانٍ فَإِذَا هُوَ كَالذَّهَبِ يَبْرُقُ
Sayyida Asma bint Yazid (may Allah be pleased with her) narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) gathered the Muslim women for the pledge of allegiance. Sayyida Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) said to him: O Messenger of Allah! Please extend your blessed hand so that we may pledge allegiance. But the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: I do not shake hands with women; I take their pledge without shaking hands. Among those women was her maternal aunt, who was wearing two gold bangles and two rings. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to her: O such-and-such woman! Would you like that on the Day of Resurrection Allah gives you bangles and rings of fire from Hell as adornment? She said: O Prophet of Allah! I seek refuge with Allah from that. Sayyida Asma says: I said: O aunt! Throw away what you are wearing, so she threw them away. Later, Sayyida Asma (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O my dear son! That woman had thrown away that jewelry, but I do not know who picked it up from that place, and none of us even looked back at it. Then I said: O Messenger of Allah! If we do not adorn ourselves at all, our value decreases in the eyes of our husbands, so with what should we adorn ourselves, O Messenger of Allah? The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no harm for you in having earrings made of silver and adorning yourselves with silver beads, and you may color them with saffron; it will shine just like gold.
Hadith Reference الفتح الربانی / كتاب اللباس والزينة / 7995
Hadith Grading محدثین: صحیح
Hadith Takhrij «قوله اني لست اصافح النسائ صحيح لغيره، وھذا اسناد ضعيف لضعف شھر بن حوشب، أخرجه الطبراني في الكبير : 24/ 417، (انظر مسند أحمد ترقيم الرسالة: 27572 ترقیم بيت الأفكار الدولية: 28124»