عَنْ أُمِّ طَارِقٍ مَوْلَاةِ سَعْدٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَتْ جَاءَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى سَعْدٍ فَاسْتَأْذَنَ فَسَكَتَ سَعْدٌ ثُمَّ أَعَادَ فَسَكَتَ سَعْدٌ ثُمَّ عَادَ فَسَكَتَ سَعْدٌ فَانْصَرَفَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَتْ فَأَرْسَلَنِي إِلَيْهِ سَعْدٌ أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَمْنَعْنَا أَنْ نَأْذَنَ لَكَ إِلَّا أَنَّا أَرَدْنَا أَنْ تَزِيدَنَا قَالَتْ فَسَمِعْتُ صَوْتًا عَلَى الْبَابِ يَسْتَأْذِنُ وَلَا أَرَى شَيْئًا فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ مَنْ أَنْتِ قَالَتْ أُمُّ مِلْدَمٍ قَالَ لَا مَرْحَبًا بِكِ وَلَا أَهْلًا أَتَهْدِينَ إِلَى أَهْلِ قُبَاءَ قَالَتْ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَاذْهَبِي إِلَيْهِمْ
Lady Umm Tariq (may Allah be pleased with her), the freed slave woman of Sayyiduna Sa’d bin ‘Ubadah (may Allah be pleased with him), narrates that the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) came to Sayyiduna Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) and sought permission to enter. Sayyiduna Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) remained silent. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) sought permission again, but he remained silent again. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) then turned back and left. Umm Tariq says: Sayyiduna Sa’d (may Allah be pleased with him) sent me to the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) to say that we did not grant you permission only because we wished that you would continue to bless us with the greetings of peace. I heard a voice at the door of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) that someone was seeking permission, but I was not looking at him. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Who are you? She said: I am Umm Mildam. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: There is no welcome for you, there is no greeting for you. Why do you not go to the people of Quba’? She said: Alright. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Then go to them.