الفتح الربانی
Fath al-Rabbani
بيان تربية الأطفالExplanation of Child Rearing
بَابُ الاسْتِهَامِ عَلَى الطِّفْلِ وَتَخْيِيْرِهِ إِذَا كَانَ مميزا عِنْدَ تَنَازُعَ أَبَوَيْهِ عَلَى حَضَانَتِهِChapter: Drawing Lots for the Child and Giving Him Choice If He Is Discerning When Parents Dispute Over Custody
Hadith 7278
اُردوEn
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ أَخْبَرَنِي أَبِي عَنْ جَدِّي رَافِعِ بْنِ سِنَانٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ أَنَّهُ أَسْلَمَ وَأَبَتْ امْرَأَتُهُ أَنْ تُسْلِمَ فَأَتَتِ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ ابْنَتِي وَهِيَ فَطِيمٌ أَوْ شَبَهُهُ وَقَالَ رَافِعٌ ابْنَتِي فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ اقْعُدْ نَاحِيَةً وَقَالَ لَهَا اقْعُدِي نَاحِيَةً فَأَقْعَدَ الصَّبِيَّةَ بَيْنَهُمَا ثُمَّ قَالَ ادْعُوَاهَا فَمَالَتْ إِلَى أُمِّهَا فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ اللَّهُمَّ اهْدِهَا فَمَالَتْ إِلَى أَبِيهَا فَأَخَذَهَا
It is narrated from Sayyiduna Rafi' bin Sinan (may Allah be pleased with him) that he accepted Islam, but his wife refused to become Muslim. She came to the Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) and said: This is my daughter, she has been weaned. The Noble Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said to Rafi': Sit on one side, and said to his wife: You sit on the other side. And the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) seated the girl between them and said: Both of you call her. The girl inclined towards her mother. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) prayed: O my Allah! Guide this girl. Then she leaned towards her father and he took her.
